Make the Popular Guy Want You

Lots of girls have many insecurities,so this page is to help you get the guy who is your eye-candy and make him want you. It doesn't matter if you are a nerd or a popular girl. There are ways to attract the guy you like, with these easy, helpful tips.

Steps

  1. Look at yourself. Do you see yourself as boy-wanted material? If not, no need to worry, these tips will have the guy you like looking at you constantly, and if you are, you still might want to look at the tips below. Remember, guys are visual creatures and you've got to fine tune that great look you have to grab their attention. Of course, you may end up with lots of other attention from all the other boys while you're at it.
  2. Confidence and Style - the most important thing is believing you are pretty. You could be the most over weight or super skinny girl in the world, but as long as you know you are beautiful, others will know you are beautiful too. Here's the trick! Look at yourself everyday before going to school and tell yourself you are gorgeous. Actually believe it.
    • Style - you don't have to be skinny to look good in your clothes. Wear clothing that brings out your best features. If you like your butt wear tight pants with a pocket design to draw attention to that area. Also black clothes make you look slimmer. Love your body and flaunt it. Don't hide beneath baggy potato sacks. Show off your beauty and make that boy look at what he's missing. But don't forget to be yourself, don't wear things for the sake of him, wear them for you.
  3. Improve on your hair. If your hair is short, you may want to consider cutting more off for a more refined look, or growing it out and/or straightening it. Invest in high quality shampoos and conditioner.
    • Whether your hair is long or short it should look stylish. Long straight hair is in but it depends on your look. Some forms of short hair can be cute, sexy, and sporty, but it's up to you.
    • Pay a little extra and go to the best stylist you can afford in town. This is about making changes for the best and your old standby hairdresser may not cut it. Go to someone great. They know hair and they can find a great look for your face shape.
    • Go wild with colors! Do something a little different with your hair everyday - guys like that. Sometimes the best way to get their attention is visually.
  4. Keep a pretty face. If you have acne, then try to invest in good products as much as you can. Wash your face regularly and wash after a workout or if you get sweaty. Take care of your skin.
    • Drink lots of water! This will flush impurities out of your pores and lessen your chance of blemishes and dry skin.
    • Visit a dermatologist for skin problem.
    • If you're clueless about makeup ask your parents to take you to a makeup counter for a consultation. Take notes. If you can't afford to buy all the makeup there, get the foundations and look for the colors elsewhere. Or buy a little at a time.
  5. Tone down the makeup if you wear a lot. Start wearing more if you haven't before. It's not about wearing a lot or wearing trends, it's about wearing what makes you look better. You should never wear too much makeup and always wear colors that complement your skin tone and eye color. Mascara is almost always a safe bet, as long as you know how to apply it properly. If not, ask a friend who does.
  6. Be nice or you're in the dumping zone. You may want to look at girls who the popular guy seems to like, see how they dress. Even if you are already close friends with him, you should still try to do this. If you ever hear him say "Hey, she's hot", scan the girl immediately to see what is she wearing and how she wears it. At the same time, make sure to stay true to your own style instead of just turning into a clone.
    • Beware: guys may think someone is hot and have no interest in dating them. Risque' may get their attention but being a lady is more likely to win their heart. Keep a mental note of what attracts him. Just maybe integrate some of that type of style into your own personal style. Like art, they might think they are pretty like a painting or sculpture.
    • If you don't get new clothes very often, then try to at least get a few stylish staples (jeans, skirts, shoes, bag) and mix and match it with other things you have. Make sure they're great fitting and you can wear it with multiple outfits. (You'll have more things to wear a great black bag with than a hot pink one.) Shop stores like New look,Topshop or River Island!
  7. Have a fresh personality. Never ever do something you aren't comfortable with, you will look awkward. Even if it's just swearing, you will look uncomfortable if you don't normally swear.
    • Try to have a fun-loving, confident personality, with a soft heart but lots of character and humor. Everyone is more fun when they have a sense of humor, and guys also like when girls are soft-hearted because they can comfort them and it makes them feel like a man which they love.
  8. Always remember to be yourself. Don't totally change yourself for this guy. It's just not worth it. Just incorporate some new things into your style, but make sure you're comfortable with them. It's more likely that he will like you more when you're genuine. People can sense fakers.
  9. Make a name for yourself in school. Get involved in activities that interest you. Be an independent, motivated and friendly person. Guys really are attracted to smart and successful more than dumb and fake. Truly get people to like you, and like them. If he knows a lot of people like you, maybe he will try to get to know you.
  10. Approach him! Don't make an approach until you're absolutely sure that you've succeeded all the steps above. You want your first impression to be a big one, so you want to look attractive. When your sure you have done these steps, which, of course, may take a bit of time, then you might want to try to talk to him.
    • Keep it simple but not to simple. Say hi and ask how his day is going, but don't make it boring with the same old 'Hi! How are you?' Ask him questions about his weekend, but don't invade his privacy.
  11. Be friendly. He may already be interested but afraid to ask you out. Being nice may make you less intimidating. Even if he isn't interested now he will remember you for being nice when he is available.
  12. ALWAYS know after rejection, that it's not the end of the world. Don't go crying and begging at your knees for him to take you. The guy will get annoyed. Give him a space for a couple of weeks. Then try again. Don't do this every so often, the guy will start to ignore you. Maybe try to find someone new! You never know if another cute guy out there is attracted to you!

Tips

  • If the guy is making fun of you for some reason he could possibly like you!(but if hes ugly, i wouldn't take any chances..)and play along but DON'T let him deeply scar you, tell him when its not cool, show him you DO in fact have some self respect.
  • Have your own style, instead of copying other people's outfits. In other words, just buy what you like and disregard other people's styles Stay aware, though, that crazy style choices may steer him away.
  • If he starts to like you just smile and just show that you feel good about yourself and that your proud of yourself and stuff.
  • Don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone. But don't force anything; stay yourself.
  • Be mature and act like a lady, but have lots of humor and a sense of adventure.
  • Laugh at all his jokes even if there not as funny as yours ;) but DON'T be that girl who just twists her hair and smiles all giddy. Is this cute? Sure. Is it an act lacking dignity and making you appear incredibly unintelligent? Of course it is. (So don't overdo it!)
  • Become friends with his friends. A guy's friends can say a lot about him, though; if his friends are impolite, there's a good chance he is impolite as well.
  • Don't be fake, or lie about your life experiences. Definition of fake: trying to force a style/ habit/etc to appeal to others. Example: trying to use profane language when, in all honesty, you sound awkward because you never cuss.
  • Don't call him all the time or he might start to dislike you because this can make you seem desperate. Remember, most guys want what they can't have; but don't make it too hard for him to catch you.
  • If you can tell he's uninterested, and doesn't really seem like he wants to talk to you, don't get worked up about it. There are other guys out there and in all honesty guys are more likely to go after girls who stay true to themselves.
  • He may just be messing with you, so don't take any chances. If things are going well, though, go for it.
  • Smell nice and make sure he doesn't already have somebody that he's dating. If you see him having a really good time with another girl, then avoid trying to date him. It may end you with being called "a boyfriend stealer"!
  • Don't be afraid to say no to a guy.
  • Be yourself while around him always. You'd never know what will happen until it happens. Just be yourself. Remember most guys like girls who be themselves and don't care if someone doesn't like you.
  • Always just be yourself, it's the advice everyone gives to each other but it works! If a guy secretly liked you and you changed yourself then that would throw them off especially is they are your friend and see a new side of you.

Warnings

  • Some people might tell you that he doesn't like you, or that he has said something mean about you. DO NOT BELIEVE THIS,unless YOU hear HIM say it.
  • You don't want to get too obsessive with him or he'll start getting annoyed with you and move on to the next girl...
  • Don't stare at him too often or he will feel uncomfortable around you.
  • Think carefully about whether he is the right guy for you! If you have nothing in common with him then keep an eye out for those boys with a great personality and you can have fun with them.
  • Don't let him pressure you to do anything; you are the one in control.
  • Don't bring up his past, he may not like it.

Things You'll Need

  • Lots of water, fruit, veggies, nuts, and whole grains!
  • Hair care products, good quality
  • Acne/face care products, good quality
  • Some in-style clothes (make sure they fit and look good on you)
  • Deodorant (Roll-on or Spray)
  • Toothpaste/mouth wash (a guy doesn't like a girl with bad breath!)

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