Meet College Girls
College can be lonely if you're a man without a woman. With all the studies, laundry, social pressures, etc., the last thing you want to worry about is why your friends have a woman and not you! From my experiences in college, there are 3 best ways to get girls.
Steps
- Use your friends and connections. You need to be aware of all the big parties and have connections into getting invites. In college, fellow buddies who are also interested in meeting women and yourself can work together to get into the best places, within our college and outside. Also, check out Facebook. It can be amazing for finding out about upcoming events. And one thing before moving on, don't be afraid to try out new events, you never know what will be there! Be spontaneous and if it's bad, just bounce to another venue.
- Be the party. Once you have built a good network of people, host your own party. This way you are the social leader. Your friends will bring their friends and you will get all the intros you want! This works like a treat during orientation. Organize a fun party in your residence hall, an example could be a "CEOs and secretary party" or a "handcuffs party." Learn how to start a conversation with anyone. You could ask them how you could improve nightlife. There are various roles of responsibilities at college - be it in a Fraternity, College bar or even residence hall. Find something that suits you and take the advantage.
- Learn to "cold approach". The best places are in class, cafeterias, residence halls, the Quad, library and coffee shops. The classic "Pick-Up Artist" approach does not work here as girls are more concerned about their reputation. Imagine if you begin talking to them and suddenly a friend spots them talking to a random person; the girl will get intimidated and worried. Each scenario has a different approach.
Tips
- Practice and find out what works for you.
- You might find someone that is sitting down, reading or studying. However they were all busy - either reading/working, on the phone or waiting for someone. Try a different approach; like the ones who are not sitting, i.e. the people browsing around for books or leaving the library. These women are much more open and have time to talk.
