Overcome the Fear of Flying

Do you wish you could travel to faraway places and see the world -- without having a panic attack? If you have aviophobia, or the fear of flying, there are ways you can prevent it from negatively affecting your life. Being informed, using relaxation techniques and planning your trip are all ways you can overcome your fear and be free to explore the world. Here's one fact that can get you going: your chances of dying in a plane crash are about 1 in 11 million. That's a whopping 0.00001% chance that something will go terribly wrong on your flight.[1]

Steps

Arming Yourself with Knowledge about Airplanes

  1. Know how safe airplanes are. Knowing a statistic may not be able to completely save you when your plane leaves the runway. But when you recognize that flying in an airplane is really safe, you can allow yourself to feel more comfortable on your flight as well as on your way to the airport. The fact of the matter is that flying is really, really safe. By far, it’s the safest mode of transportation.
    • When flying in a developed country, your chances of dying in a plane crash are 1 in 30 million.[2]
  2. Compare the safety of plane travel with other dangers. There are a multitude of other experiences in life that you likely never think twice about. It turns out that they are more dangerous than flying in an airplane. These dangers aren’t meant to make you feel anxious about them. Instead, they’re meant to show you how unfounded your worries about flying really are! Learn these statistics, write them down, and repeat them to yourself when you start to worry about what will happen on your next flight.
    • Your chances of being killed in an automobile accident are 1 in 5,000. That means that the most dangerous part of your flight is your drive to the airport. Once you've made the drive to the airport, pat yourself on the back. You've just made it through the most dangerous part of your flight.
    • You have a higher chance of dying of food poisoning than in a plane crash, at 1 in 3 million.
    • You also have a better chance of dying of a snake bite, getting hit by lighting, dying of scalding of hot water or falling off your bed. If you’re left-handed, it’s riskier to use right-handed equipment than it is to die in a plane crash.
    • You are more likely to die falling while walking onto the airplane itself.
  3. Expect movements and sensations during the flight. A large part of being scared is not knowing what will happen next. Why is the plane going so fast? Why do my ears feel funny? Why does the wing look weird? Why are we being asked to keep our seat belts on? When presented with an unusual circumstance, your first instinct is to assume the worst. To minimize this, learn everything you can about flying and how a plane works. The more you know, the less chance there will be for you to worry about. Here are some things you should know:
    • The plane needs to reach a certain speed so that it can take off. That's why you may feel like the plane is going so fast. Once the plane lifts off the ground, you won't notice the aircraft's speed so much because there is no longer friction with the ground.
    • Your ears pop when the plane moves up or down because of a change in air pressure.
    • Certain parts of the wing are supposed to move during the flight. That's perfectly normal. These control surfaces are designed to push air while the craft moves, allowing the craft to be maneuvered.
  4. Know what to expect with turbulence. Turbulence occurs when a plane flies through an area of low pressure to high pressure, which will make you feel a "bump" in the ride. Turbulence is just like driving on a rocky road. It can't cause the plane to stall and start falling from the sky.
    • On the rare occasion that turbulence causes injuries, it's usually because passengers weren’t wearing seat belts or were hurt by falling overhead luggage. Think of it; you never heard of a pilot being hurt in turbulence. That's because pilots always wear seat belts.
  5. Learn more about how a plane works. You can also learn about the inner-workings of a plane to demystify the process that has you so scared. Studies show that 73% of people who are afraid of flying fear mechanical problems that can occur during a flight. So, the more you know about how a plane works, the more at ease you'll feel throughout the process instead of asking yourself questions like "Why is the plane doing that?" or "Is that normal?" Here are some things you need to know.[3]
    • Four forces are at work to get the plane to fly: gravity, drag, lift, and thrust. These forces are balanced to make your flight feel as natural and easy as walking. As one pilot said, "Planes are the happiest in the air." You can read up on the science behind these forces if you want to take your knowledge to the next level.
    • Jet engines are much simpler than the engines you'll find in a car or even in a lawnmower. In the extremely unlikely event that something goes wrong with one of the plane's engines, the plane will function just fine with its remaining engines.
  6. Rest easy that the plane door won’t open during flight. You can also curb any fears that a plane door can open during the flight. The doors are designed to open inward first so that the cabin pressure (typically greater than 11 psi[4]) has to be overcome before the doors can be opened.[5] Once you reach {{safesubst:#invoke:convert|convert}}, there will be about 20,000 pounds of pressure holding the door shut, so that would be a tall order.[6]
  7. Know that airplanes are maintained regularly. Airplanes go through a ton of repair and upkeep procedures. For every hour that a plane flies in the air, it goes through 11 hours of maintenance. This means that, if your flight is three hours long, the plane has gone through 33 hours of maintenance to make sure everything is working smoothly!

Managing Your Anxiety

  1. Manage your general anxiety. You can go a long way in managing your anxiety about flying by being mindful about managing your anxiety in general. First, recognize your anxiety. How do you start to feel anxious? Do your palms sweat? Do your fingers tingle? By recognizing what signs you feel first, you will be able to start management exercises earlier to control your feelings of anxiety.
  2. Let go of what you can’t control. Many people who are scared of flying are scared because they feel that they are not in control. People with this phobia might feel like they will never get into a car accident because they are in control. They are in the driver's seat. This is why they can accept the risk of driving in a car over flying. Someone else is doing the driving, up in the sky, so the lack of control is often one of the scariest things about flying.
    • Many people experience anxiety because of perceived control (or lack thereof) over a stressful situation.
  3. Try relaxing exercises to relieve anxiety. Integrate anxiety-reducing exercises into your everyday life. When you practice these exercises when you are not anxious, you will have tools ready to help you when you are anxious. Then you will feel more able to gain control and calm yourself. Try yoga or meditation to reduce anxiety in your life.[7],[8]
    • It is important to remember that your fear and anxiety can take several months to overcome and gain complete control.
  4. Try relaxing your muscles. Start with noticing what muscle group is tight or stiff. Shoulders are a good example. Often when we are nervous or anxious, we move our shoulders up toward our neck and tighten those muscles.[9]
    • Take a deep breath and let your shoulders sink. Feel the muscles relax. Now try this with other muscle groups such as your face or your legs.
  5. Use guided imagery. Think of a place that makes you happy or comfortable. Imagine you are in that place. What do you see? Smell? Feel? Focus on each detail about the place you choose.[10]
    • There are several guided imagery tapes that you can purchase or even download to help you practice.
  6. Take deep breaths. Place one hand on your abdomen. Take in a deep breath through your nose. Take in all the air you can. You should feel our abdomen rise, not your chest. Exhale through your mouth, counting to 10 slowly. Contract your abdomen to push out all the air.[11]
    • Do this exercise 4-5 times to help you relax.
    • Keep in mind that breathing exercises may not provide adequate relief. Several recent research studies found no measurable benefit. [12] [13]
  7. Distract yourself. Think about something else you're excited about, or at least something that will take your mind off of your fears. What will you make for dinner? If you could go anywhere, where would you go? What would you do there? [14]
  8. Take a class. There are classes that can help you overcome your fear of flying. You may need to pay for one of these courses, but they do exist. There are two kinds of courses: those you attend in person and those you do at your own pace using videos, written materials and counseling sessions. Classes you attend help you get accustomed to flying by exposure to an airport and a flight with your class leader. The desensitization gained by taking this flight may not last, however, unless you maintain it by flying frequently.
    • You can look into such group therapy classes in your area.[15]
    • Classes done at your own pace leave you in control of the process. And, since you retain the course materials, you can reinforce your learning by going through the materials periodically.
    • Some courses offer weekly group phone counseling sessions at no additional cost.
    • Some classes put you in a flight simulator. This mimics the experience of flying without leaving the ground.
  9. Take flying lessons. Face your fear head-on by taking flying lessons. There are countless stories of people who've feared something all their lives only to meet it face-to-face one day. Then they discover that the object of their fear was nothing to be afraid of. One way to conquer a phobia is to immerse yourself in what you know is a safe situation. In this case, you’re in the presence of a trained professional.
    • With the guidance of a patient instructor, you might find that flying isn't so scary after all. Though this is an extreme approach, it could be your way to easing your anxiety.
  10. Avoid reading too much about plane crashes. If you want to stay calm on the subject, don’t obsess over plane crashes that are reported in the news. These stories will not make you feel better. Instead they will only add to your anxiety about an unlikely event occurring. If you are already are struggling with anxiety about flying, avoid the temptation to indulge your fears.
    • The same goes for watching Flight or other movies about plane crashes or scary flights.

Booking Your Flight

  1. Pick a direct flight. Though you have limited control once you get into the passenger seat in your plane, there are some things you can do in advance to ease your worries. Choose a direct flight to your destination. This is a no-brainer. The less time in the air, the better.
  2. Choose a seat over the wing. The passengers who sit here tend to have the smoothest flights. The area over the wing is more stable and less susceptible to extra movement.
  3. Choose an aisle seat or exit row seat. Choose a seat that will make you feel less trapped. Choose an aisle seat or even splurge on an exit row.
  4. Choose a larger flight with a larger plane. If there's a way to avoid puddle jumpers or smaller planes. When you look for flights, you’ll find information about the aircraft that will be used. If you can select a larger plane, do it. The bigger the plane, the smoother your flight will be.
  5. Choose a daytime flight. If you're afraid of flying at night, choose a daytime flight. Sometimes you can feel better because you'll be able to look out the windows and see everything around you. You may feel more anxiety in the dark because you'll feel like you're facing the unknown.
  6. Choose a path with the least turbulence. You can even check out an online site called Turbulence Forecast about which parts of the country have the least turbulence. If you have to plan for a connecting flight, see if you can choose paths that are likely to give you less trouble.

Getting Prepared for the Flight

  1. Visit the airport at another time. Some people recommend you even visit the airport when you don't plan to fly. Just hang out in the terminals and get used to how things are there. This may sound extreme, but it's another way to slowly get comfortable with the flight at hand.
  2. Arrive early. Get to the airport early so you have time to experience the terminal, go through security, and find your gate. Being late, or just not having time to mentally prepare for what's ahead, is bound to make you feel more anxious when it's time to take your seat. Get used to the terminal, the people who are arriving and leaving the airport, and the general atmosphere at the airport. The more you get used to it, the better you'll feel when the time comes to board your flight.
  3. Get to know your flight attendants and the pilot. When you get on the plane, say hi to the flight attendants or even to the pilot. See them dressed in their uniforms, doing their jobs. Pilots receive special training, just as a doctor does, and they are people you should respect and trust. If you practice having faith in these people, and understand that they have your best interests in mind and are competent, then you'll feel better about the trip.
    • Your pilots will have several hundred hours of experience in the air. They'll need to log 1,500 flight hours just to apply to work at a major airline.[16]
  4. Avoid self-medicating with alcohol. Many people start ordering a lifetime supply of wine or Bloody Marys as soon as the flight attendants make a first pass. But this is not a good long-term solution for easing your anxiety about flying. Alcohol can actually make you feel more anxious about having less control. This may especially be the case if you’re worried about having to evacuate the plane.
    • Getting too drunk to worry can just make you feel terrible, especially after the effects of the alcohol wear off.
    • If you really need to calm your nerves, try just one glass of wine or a beer.
  5. Bring some snacks. Distract yourself with a snack that takes a while to eat, or just with your favorite treat.
  6. Treat yourself to a trashy celebrity gossip magazine. You may be too distracted to do your chemistry homework, but you may have enough brainpower to read about the latest scandal in Hollywood.
  7. Get on the plane ready for a nap. Some people recommend that you show up to the plane after having woken up early. Then it's more likely that you will be able to catch some shut eye during your flight. What better way to pass the time than to be asleep?

Being in the Air

  1. Take deep breaths. Slowly inhale through your nose. Then exhale gently, counting to ten until you let all the air out of your lungs. Repeat as many times as necessary.[17]
  2. Squeeze your arm rest. If you're feeling anxious, especially during takeoff or landing, squeeze your armrest as hard as you can. At the same time, tense your stomach muscles, and hold this position for 10 seconds.
  3. Place a rubber band around your wrist. Snap it when you feel anxious. This little jolt of pain will help bring you back to reality.
  4. Bring diversions. If you find as many ways to distract yourself as possible, then you'll be better off when the time to fly comes. Bring magazines or download episodes of your favorite television show you've been meaning to catch up on and watch them on your computer. You might try playing a game on your computer. You can also bring work from the office or school work.
    • Find whatever works for you. Look at your time in the air as a time to do some of the things you've wanted or needed to do, instead of just several hours of unmitigated anxiety.

Tips

  • Once you have a strategy for beating your fears on flight day, fly as often as you can. Making a habit of flying will make it feel less like a scary, isolated event and more like a routine part of your day. Once you get into the habit of it, you'll start to feel more at ease with the process.[18] When you have a choice between flying and driving, choose flying just to tackle your fear more. Remember, it's much safer to fly than it is to drive!
  • Accept that you are not in control in certain situations, such as flying. Risk is a part of life. You never know what's right around the corner. Fear is all about anticipating, worrying, and wanting to control the future. Once you become more comfortable with the idea that what will be will be, flying will not be as much of a threat to your peace of mind.
  • When flying, bring things that will entertain you but also make your brain think carefully. A good way people find is to think about if you could go anywhere, where would it be and what would you do, though if this doesn't work for you try to think about the place you are flying to and what you will do there.
  • Try to distract yourself from your fear by watching a movie or taking a nap.
  • Bring travel sick bands and tablets just in case if you feel sick or nauseous.
  • Remember, the captain knows what he is doing. Trust the flight crew! They have flown millions of times before!
  • Try not to look out the window during takeoff and landing. Instead, try to think of something distracting, like what plans you have after you land. Don't zone out too much as you should still be alert in case of an emergency.
  • Pull yourself away from stressful situations like "What if I crash?" or something else like that and think about something you enjoy it bring a notebook to draw or write.
  • Brace when landing if you're too scared. Bracing is a position to protect you against impact, and is used in an emergency landing, but you can also use it upon landing if you are too scared.
  • While taking off, count to 60. By the time you reach 60, you will be in the air!
  • Watch full flight videos on YouTube, they help you get used to the motion of flying.

Warnings

  • If you think you experience serious levels of anxiety, see a therapist to discuss treatment. You can also see a doctor about anti-anxiety medication that can be prescribed for your flight. There are some over-the-counter medications for calming or sleep aid, but you should still consult your doctor for dose instructions and interactions with other medications.

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References

  1. ↑ http://theweek.com/article/index/246552/the-odds-are-11-million-to-1-that-youll-die-in-a-plane-crash
  2. ↑ http://web.mit.edu/airlines/industry_outreach/board_meeting_presentation_files/meeting-oct-2006/14-Barnett%20Aviation%20Safety%20in%20Developing%20Countries.pdf
  3. ↑ http://flyfright.com/overcomingfear/
  4. ↑ https://aerosavvy.com/aircraft-pressurization/
  5. ↑ https://www.askthepilot.com/questionanswers/exits/
  6. ↑ http://flyfright.com/overcomingfear/
  7. ↑ Roth, W. T. (2010). Diversity of effective treatments of panic attacks: what do they have in common?. Depression And Anxiety, 27(1), 5-11. doi:10.1002/da.20601
  8. ↑ Gaudlitz, K., Plag, J., Dimeo, F., & Ströhle, A. (2015). Aerobic exercise training facilitates the effectiveness of cognitive behavioral therapy in panic disorder. Depression And Anxiety, 32(3), 221-228. doi:10.1002/da.22337
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  10. ↑ Kim, B. H., Newton, R. A., Sachs, M. L., Giacobbi, P. R., & Glutting, J. J. (2011). The effect of guided relaxation and exercise imagery on self-reported leisure-time exercise behaviors in older adults. Journal of aging and physical activity, 19(2), 137-146.
  11. ↑ Francesco, P., Mauro, M. G., Gianluca, C., & Enrico, M. (2010). The efficacy of relaxation training in treating anxiety. International Journal of Behavioral Consultation and Therapy, 5(3-4), 264.
  12. ↑ Schmidt, N., Woolaway-Bickel, K., Trakowski, J. et al. (2000). Dismantling cognitive-behavioural treatment for panic disorder: Questioning the utility of breathing retraining. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 68(3), 417-424
  13. ↑ Barlow, D., (20014) Anxiety and its Disroders: The Nature and Treatment of Anxiety and Panic, New York: Guilford.
  14. ↑ Kim, B. H., Newton, R. A., Sachs, M. L., Giacobbi, P. R., & Glutting, J. J. (2011). The effect of guided relaxation and exercise imagery on self-reported leisure-time exercise behaviors in older adults. Journal of aging and physical activity, 19(2), 137-146.
  15. ↑ http://www.adaa.org/living-with-anxiety/ask-and-learn/ask-expert/how-can-i-overcome-my-fear-of-flying
  16. ↑ http://flyfright.com/overcomingfear/
  17. ↑ http://lifehacker.com/how-i-beat-my-fear-of-flying-1052703615
  18. ↑ http://lifehacker.com/how-i-beat-my-fear-of-flying-1052703615

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