Quickly Break up With Your Boyfriend
Do you not love your boyfriend? Does he not treat you well? Or did the love just fade? Read this article to find out how to break up with your boyfriend.
Steps
- Make sure you are serious about dumping your boyfriend. If you and your boyfriend just had an argument, don't dump him or decide to do anything rash, because you could ruin a relationship that didn't have to end. Decide if you really are going to dump your boyfriend, because if this isn't the case you could ruin something special. Don't throw away a relationship for nothing.
- Prepare yourself. You need to be ready to break up with your boyfriend. Figure out how you are going to break up with him. Even use cue cards or practice if you need to, even if it sounds ridiculous. The emotional preparation for a break-up is one of the hardest things you will be going through during this time of breaking up with your boyfriend.
- Make cue cards if you need them. As ridiculous as it is, you might need them. This is part of the practice. It's better to practice dumping your boyfriend so you aren't lost for words when the time comes. If you don't need cue cards, don't make them, but they might help. They are also important to help you figure out what you will say. Practice a lot, but don't delay the breaking up for too long, otherwise you will just get more and more scared and nervous and your nerves will build up.
- Call, text or email your boyfriend to tell him either you are coming over to his house or he can come to yours, and that you need to discuss something very important. Don't tell him you're dumping him via a call, text message or email because it's just plain mean and says that you couldn't be bothered to even have a heart to heart talk with your boyfriend. If you really can't be bothered telling your boyfriend, just call, text or email him but it's better to dump him in person.
- The time has come to dump your boyfriend. You go to his house, or he comes to yours, as previously arranged (see previous step). Take him to a private part of the house and tell him you two need to talk.
- You can either drag out your long break-up speech or tell him straight out you're dumping him. Tell him you can't stay in the relationship and you're breaking up with him to help both of you.
- Tell your boyfriend you're sorry and leave (if he is at your house, you will need to ask him to leave).
- Clear yourself of any guilt and pretty much avoid your boyfriend for a while until things have cooled down and there is not as much awkward tension between the two of you.
