Spice up Kissing

Kissing is a universal way of saying “I like you” or “I want you”. But if you have been kissing the same partner for a long time or if you have been searching for unique ways to smooch a new partner, you may yearn for ways to spice up your kissing routine. You can add some pizzazz to your kissing style by trying different kissing styles, and by doing body kissing, where you kiss and caress your partner’s more sensual body parts, like her ears, her neck, and her hands. You can also integrate props into your kissing routine to add a surprising and fun element.

Steps

Doing Different Kissing Styles

  1. Give her a butterfly kiss. A butterfly kiss involves no tongue at all, or any mouth to mouth contact. Instead, you will use your eyelashes to “kiss” your partner.[1]
    • Bring your face very close to your partner’s face. Instruct her to close her eyes.
    • Flutter your eyelashes rapidly, moving over her cheeks, her mouth, her chin, and even her forehead. This will give her a pleasing, soft sensation on her face and get her more in the mood for mouth to mouth kissing.
  2. Try a forehead kiss. This kiss is another good way to mix up your kissing routine and kiss your partner in an intimate and unique way.[1]
    • Lean forward and gently kiss your partner’s forehead, moving your lips slowly. Do not give a very wet kiss or a loud kiss. Instead, keep the kiss brief and sweet.
  3. Do French kissing. French kissing is also known as “kissing with tongue”, and is considered one of the more sensual ways to kiss someone. Spice up your kissing technique by adding in some tongue action. Just make sure you have fresh breath before you attempt this.[2]
    • Start kissing your partner normally and then gently slide your tongue into her mouth. Only slide it in part way, using slow, gentle movements. Go slow and steady, as you do not want to jam your tongue into your partner’s mouth. This will be the opposite of sensual.
    • Once you feel comfortable with the basic French kiss, you can start to explore your partner’s tongue more with your tongue. You can move your tongue against her tongue, have them touch, or suck on her tongue with your mouth. Avoid moving your tongue over your partner’s teeth or gums, as this will feel more like a dental check up than a fun make out session.

Doing Body Kissing

  1. Nibble on her earlobes. Focus on the more sensual parts of her body and gently nibble on her earlobes. You can also gently kiss behind her ears or just under her earlobes. This can be a good way to start the make out session and get her in the mood for mouth to mouth kissing.[3]
  2. Kiss her neck and the sides of her face. Don’t limit yourself to just her lips; kiss her neck, her collar bones, and the sides of her face. You can also create a trail of kisses, moving from her chest to her neck, the sides of her face, her earlobes, and then, finally her lips.[3]
  3. Suck on her fingers and lips. Sucking on the tips of her fingers and her bottom lip can add a sensual element to your kissing session.[3]
    • You can also lick her lips softly if you do not like the idea of sucking on her lips.
  4. Stroke her chest and stomach with your lips. Use your mouth on other parts of her body, like her chest and her stomach. Make a trail of kisses all over her body to give your kissing some real sensuality.[3]
  5. Use your hands when kissing her. Don’t forget to put your entire body into the kiss, including your hands. Use your hands to hold the sides of her face, the back of her head, or to stroke her hair as you kiss her. This will stimulate her body and give your kissing more passion.[4]

Using Props

  1. Set the mood before you attempt a kiss. Create an environment that will feel romantic and intimate for you and your partner. Play romantic music, light candles, and make the room dark and inviting. You can also take your partner to a secluded area in a park or in a private spot in a garden, where she will feel the romantic vibes. This can then set up you both up for a fun and spicy kissing session.
  2. Add in wine or another alcohol to spice up kissing. One good prop for individuals who drink is a bottle of wine or a bottle of nice, light alcohol. You can integrate wine into your kissing routine to keep it interesting and fun.[3]
    • Pour yourself a glass of wine and take one long sip, making sure you wet your lips with the wine.
    • Dip your finger in the glass of wine and use it to trace her lips. Let her lick off the wine on her lips and kiss you to get the wine off of your lips. Continue to wet her lips with wine and then have her lick it off to create a fun kissing session.
  3. Play a kissing game with a blindfold. Remove the visual element and focus on the sensual by kissing your partner while she is blindfolded. Don’t tie the blindfold too tight but make sure she cannot see in front of her. Then, tell her to focus on her lips as you kiss her.
    • You can also kiss other parts of her body, like her neck, chest, and face while she is blindfolded to create a fun kissing game.
  4. Integrate sensual foods into your kissing routine. Put out a platter of sensual foods, like chocolate covered strawberries, whip cream, or ice cubes, and integrate them into your kissing routine. You could both nibble on chocolate covered strawberries between kisses or spray whip cream on each other’s bodies and lick or kiss it off of each other.
    • Ice cubes can also be a fun prop for kissing. Rub the ice cubes against each other’s lips or on other parts of your body and lick or kiss off the cold water. The cooling sensation on your mouths will feel nice, especially when coupled with warmth of your mouths.
  5. Say enticing words between kisses. Use words as props to spice up your kissing style. Whisper in your partner’s ear, “I want you” or “Kiss me harder”, and then move in for a kiss. Words can often be a trigger for desire and act as a fun type of foreplay.[3]

Tips

  • As you and your partner start kissing, you should try to read her reaction to your kissing to ensure she is enjoying what you are doing. If you are trying a different kissing style, you may want to check if she is kissing you back, pressing her body against you, or making pleasurable noises. These are all signs she is enjoying the kissing session.
  • You may also want to ask her if she enjoyed the way you kissed her after the kissing session. She may suggest different areas where you can kiss her, or other kissing styles. Get feedback from your partner and try to work it into your next kissing session so your physical relationship remains fun and exciting.

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Sources and Citations

  1. ↑ 1.0 1.1 http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/relationships/advice/a24224/new-kisses-you-should-try/
  2. ↑ http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/articles/CGs1ZD7b26dPmGB4HMygPr/kissing-with-confidence
  3. ↑ 3.0 3.1 3.2 3.3 3.4 3.5 http://snip.ly/tV11#http://www.getromantic.com/passion/better_kisser/10_sexy_kissing_tips.html
  4. ↑ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/08/06/sexless-marriage-kissing_n_1746190.html

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