Tell if Your Best Friend Likes Your Boyfriend
It can be nerve-wracking and scary to have the lingering suspicion that your best friend likes your boyfriend! Fortunately for you, this article will help you figure out if your friend is crushing on your guy.
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Steps
- Before you say anything to your friend, watch her closely. More than often will her actions, poses, and facial expressions reveal her hidden secret. Ask yourself the following questions:
- Does she hang out with your boyfriend more than you?
- Does she seem to hover/linger around him and strike up more conversations with him than you?
- Are her eyes dilated when they're focused on him?
- Does she appear nervous and a little giggly around him?
- Has she said anything that may hint that she likes him? (Ex: "Your boyfriend is really cute!")
- When you three are together, watch your friend for any signs of flirting or wanting to flirt. See if she laughs at almost every joke he cracks, giggles and blushes a lot, and/or bats her eyelashes.
- Watch her if she makes any physical contact with him. Is it flirty or just a simple, innocent gesture of friendship?
- Listen to your boyfriend and be alerted if he says anything about how weird your friend is acting around him. Take note of any strange, suspicious behaviors he mentions.
- Be alerted when she asks a lot about your boyfriend. She could be just a caring friend who wants to know more, or a secret admirer that wants to be liked back.
- Does she ask a lot about his attitude? Family? What makes him happy, angry...etc. She could be studying him to maybe steal your boyfriend from you.
Tips
- If she tries to cut you off from him so she can talk to him then that is a big sign she likes him.
- If she tries to keep you two apart then that's a sign that she might like him.
- If your best friend acts weird or giggles a lot around him, this could also be a sign she likes him.
- Hating on him all the time could just be a way that your best friend tries to hide her feelings. (Warning: this could also mean that your friend just hates your boyfriend.)
- Go and pretend that you and your boyfriend have split up, and if she flirts with him, then she likes him.
- If she's dressing with her favorite clothes, wears makeup, and perfume only when she's around him, it is a sign.
- Ask your best friend what she thinks about your boyfriend.
Warnings
- Your best friend may be suspicious, so plan it out and think carefully.
- Don't ask your friend straight out if she likes your bf.
- Don't look in your friend's phone to see if she tries to talk to him
- You might hurt her feelings.
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