Be Classy, Sophisticated, and Fun at a Party

This article is a step by step "How to" guide to become a classy, sophisticated and fun party goer that will have people flocking to you.

Steps

  1. First you need to be positive that you are actually invited to this party. Party crashers are usually not welcome at most parties. (Definition of a crasher : Someone who either does not know the host/hostess or someone who is not formally invited to said party.) If you are not sure if you were invited, get clarification. If you know you weren't invited then don't go.
  2. Next you are going to want to decide what you are going to wear before hand. This completely depends on the type of party that you are going to (See tips for further advice.) If you are female your hair and makeup should also be planned before.
  3. Okay, so you are now almost ready to head out, correct? Good. Now you need a few things to put in your pocket or purse. Things you may not think of but will most likely need include: A compact mirror, makeup for touch ups, a small comb/ brush, car keys, money for a taxi (in case you decide to drink), camera (optional), cell phone, taxi service numbers, friends numbers, families numbers, pen and paper (to write phone numbers of new found friends) and possibly something nice to give to the host/ hostess.
  4. So now, whether you are driving or not, you need transportation to said party. Don't rely on friends not to drink, always have a back up plan.
  5. So now that you have successfully arrived at the party you should first say hello to the host/ hostess. Then it's time to mingle. Get a drink if you wish, it makes you seem more personable and approachable.
  6. While mingling you must remember to be courteous and nice. Don't exclude anyone from talking to you. And don't forget to talk to other people than your circle of friends.
  7. If you are a little shy, try spending some time on your own. If you are on your own people will be more compelled to approach you.
  8. So now you have been at the party for a while, here are some basic tips on how to be sophisticated.
    • You should talk in a quieter voice, loud enough for the people you are talking to, but quiet enough that you are not being obnoxious and rude by letting everyone hear you.
    • You should also sip your drink, alcoholic or not. Chugging is rude and makes you look uncivilized.
    • Smile and listen intently when people are talking to you. Don't be an attention hog, if you are classy and sophisticated people will want to pay attention to you.
  9. Here are some tips to be classy yet fun. If there is dancing at this party don't be afraid to dance, but don't dance embarrassingly, provocatively, or suggestively. It will make you seem crass.
  10. Also be constantly aware of your surroundings. There might be someone waiting to be asked to dance and you could be that person to ask them.
  11. Laugh lots, have humor.
  12. Suggest to other people something that they should do with you, like dance or sing. Karaoke is highly overrated but it just might be an icebreaker depending on the party and the party goers.
  13. After meeting new people suggest that you should meet again, this will make you seem genuine and earnest, even if you are not.
  14. Say goodbye to people politely with a "I hope to see you again sometime" or a "Let's do this again, it was fun."
  15. Always say thank you to the host/ hostess. Often the people who have the least amount of fun at a party is the person throwing it.
  16. If you are sober, be sure to offer to drive people who are not home.

Tips

  • Always be polite.
  • Dance with people. Don't wait to be asked because it might not happen.
  • If someone you are talking to seems shy don't ask them a lot of questions until they seem more comfortable, putting them on the spot may cause them to panic.
  • Types of parties and proper attire (Note: There are many different types of parties, I have just listed the three most common and broad.):
  • Drinking party- For both men and women just about anything goes, but to be sophisticated you should wear something modest, easy to move in, and comfortable.
  • Laugh and smile the euphoria will be contagious.
  • Don't get drunk. Most people become obnoxious and rude under the influence of alcohol. Some people even become violent. You may say or do many things that you will later regret when you are drunk because your judgment is impaired.
  • Drink something sophisticated but do it sparingly.
  • Dance party- Men should wear something casual jeans and a shirt. Women could wear either a skirt or pants with a semi formal top. High heels are optional.
  • Dinner party- if you are male a nice pair of neutral slacks and a button up shirt will often suffice. If you are female try a pencil skirt (Which is very versatile) and a rich coloured blouse.

Warnings

  • Do not over or under dress for a party. In case you are concerned about your attire, ask the host/hostess about the appropriate clothing. Dressing tastefully is always classy.
  • Keep your at party hookups on the down low, no need to give everyone an update. I would suggest to avoid these hookups at all costs, they make you seem easy.
  • DO NOT get drunk, at any type of party. It is rude and distasteful.

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