Be Ready and Comfortable Kissing a Guy
You've been dreaming about this kiss for ages. In your fantasies, it always goes perfectly, but reality is never quite the same. To make sure you're ready and comfortable for the kiss, it's important to make a few real-life preparations. You can prepare yourself by primping with some perfume, giving yourself a pep talk, and leading up to the kiss with some cuddling. Your real life kiss might not resemble one from your dreams, but if you're ready and comfortable, it will feel even better.
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Steps
- Spray nice perfume. Guys love girls that will smell good, but don't spray too much - "less is more". It's recommended to be sprayed on the neck, wrists and if you want, all over your chest. Fun fact: It's scientifically proven that boys are attracted to the scent of vanilla!
- Tell yourself that everything will be okay. Because it will be okay! Nothing bad is going to happen. Plus it's "your" choice that you're doing this, nobody else's. You can always say no if you want to. But once you get into the kissing - you'll enjoy, and will be fine!
- Start by cuddling. Never just go in for the kiss unless you want to and you know your partner is okay with it too. This will ease any nerves you have too.
- Slowly look up at him. Start giggling gently and look into his eyes, this will ease his nerves because he knows that you're comfortable. Maybe take his hand and give it a squeeze.
- Look at his lips. And then look back up at his eyes. This is hinting you'd like a kiss.
- The guy should then get the idea and you should both lean in and make the kiss natural.
- At the end, don't make it awkward. Say something or giggle. Maybe squeeze his hand again. Or create a sudden goodbye. You could nicely say, "I've got to go now, but I'll speak later."
Tips
- Make sure you have fresh, nice breath. Use a mint, not gum, because you need to find a way to spit that out later, and chewing gum creates more saliva.
- Before your kiss put on some lip balm, but only a little.
- The guy will be just as nervous as you, so just remember that everything is fine.
- Be relaxed and calm, and don't twitch or fidget. Your attention, stance, and bodily movements should all be directed towards appreciating the kiss.
- Do NOT wear lip gloss or lipstick unless he's into that sort of thing.
- Brush your teeth before you kiss him.
Warnings
- If your guy pushes you further into anything other than a kiss, and you don't want to, do NOT let him. He does not have the right to do that.
