Get Your Crush Attracted to You

You should be reading this article once your crush knows that you exist. To get your crush to like you the way you like him/her, try some of these tips. Hope they help!

Steps

  1. Try different clothes. To make you look attractive, try new clothes that make you look cute or adorable. Overall, wear clothes that make you feel pretty and comfortable. This helps more than you think. Wear bright cute clothes if your crush is athletic or something related to that, if your crush is goth, you probably should wear darker clothes.
  2. Get to know your crush. Find out what he likes; maybe you both are interested in the same things. However, don't join all the same activities as him. That would make a guy feel like you're stalking him.
  3. Don't be afraid to approach your crush. How will he ever seem to be interested in you if he never sees you around? Strike up a conversation or invite him to join in an activity your participating in, or join the one he's doing.
  4. Don't half dress or go all Paris Hilton. Look decent and feel comfortable in what you wear. Don't change your style to catch his attention. If you try step one, and it just doesn't feel right, then don't do it. After all, if it is just a crush, then it doesn't really matter, because chances are, you will eventually find another one.
  5. Don't make it obvious that you like your crush. If someone asks how you feel about your crush say, "He/she's cool, I guess," not ,"OMG he/she's the hottest person around!"
  6. Try not to tell anyone about your crush. If you do, it's going to get around, and soon everyone will know. When everyone is pressuring your crush it will make him feel uncomfortable, and his answer will probably be no.

Tips

  • DO NOT get your friends to ask your crush out. If they all go up to your crush, and ask, he'll be embarrassed and say 'no' automatically. If you want to ask him, ask the boy in private or call/text them up. Be straightforward about what you want to ask him. Get comfortable and chat a little while and bring it up casually, like it's no big deal. Chances are, they'll say yes. If not, there are plenty of other guys.
  • If your crush asks you a question, wait 2-3 seconds to answer. Think about what you'll say so you don't say something you didn't mean to.
  • Know yourself, have the sense enough to think if this person is your type.
  • Don't change yourself for him. A guy you want to date will like you for everything you are, including your faults.
  • When your Crush asks you out, never seem eager. Say, "Well I don't know, maybe, ask me tomorrow." Then don't think about it, if he really cares about you he will remember and ask tomorrow.

Warnings

  • If you want to tell someone that you like such-n-such, make sure it's someone you trust.
  • Never seem too eager.
  • Avoid looking like a fool in front of your crush.
  • If your crush doesn't like you, it's okay. There are many other people out there.

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