Get a Boyfriend when You Are Not Physically Attractive
Do you feel that you're not the prettiest girl, but you still want a boyfriend? Do you feel as if you'll never find a guy that will like you because of how you look?
Contents
Steps
- Choose the right kind of guy. You want the guy who will remember you after you walk away. Usually these are the quiet ones.
- Start up a conversation with him. Don't go up to him and chat up a storm, never letting him talk. Introduce yourself and start talking to him. Just don't act like a robot. Joke around, laugh, be interesting.
- Mention some interests of his that you've noticed. For example, "Hey Thomas, I saw you playing the flute the other day. How long have you been playing?"
- Take mental notes of what he likes for future use and if you like the same thing he does, tell him, he'll like it. This helps to move the conversation from superficial to meaningful.
- Don't be nervous. He's just a guy, of which there are millions. There's no sense in getting worked up over some idiot who may not even be worth your time.
- Look your best and be confident! This is the top seller for both genders. Jewelry, hair, makeup, fashionable clothing etc. look at what the other girls your age in your area are wearing and and in your own personal style with accessories. (Yes, celebrate your individuality!) The most important thing is to be comfortable and above all, don't look like a tramp or else you will get treated that way. This is the dress. The only person out of reach is the one you tell yourself is out of reach. It is up to you! The good news is that somebody on this planet thinks you are a really attractive person. Again, confidence is key.
Tips
- Improve your smile, practice on the mirror. If you're not physically attractive it does not mean you can't have an attractive smile. Smiling brings out the best in people. Find your best angle to smile, and try to show it off in front of your crush.
- Get to know him! If you end up hitting it off, the relationship will last much longer if you know about him first. This does not mean stalk him. Just make sure you're friends before anything happens. If he knows you, he'll begin to wonder if you're interested.
- Push your inner beauty to the outside by being nice to everybody.
- Compliment him, but don't act corny. That would be a big turn off. Just compliment him, and pay attention, if he has something new on or something different, tell him it looks nice, that's if it does.
- Compliment yourself to stay confident and high spirited when looking for a boyfriend.
- Try to find guys that won't like you just for your looks.
Warnings
- Don't be too needy with him.
- Be confident. It is vital to your success.
- Do not think that you have to look gorgeous in front of him. You want to look attractive, but don't be something you're not. Guys like real girls, not barbie dolls. Chances are, if he's a good guy, he'll think you're gorgeous no matter what.
- Wait for pet names until it becomes appropriate. You're not a waitress, so it's uncalled for to be calling anyone but the family pet Sweetheart just yet.
- Wait for him to give you the title of girlfriend.
Related Articles
- Be a Good Matchmaker
- Meet a Boy
- Dress to Meet a Boy for the First Time
- Meet Band Members at a Concert
- Meet People from Other Schools
- Compliment a Guy
- Be a Good Girlfriend
