Get a Girl to Kiss You

You have your eye on a girl but things just aren't moving quickly. And trying to read girls is like reading Greek (unless you can read Greek). How do you know if she wants you to kiss her? Simple. Get her to kiss you.

Steps

Lay the Foundation

  1. Make her happy. Even if she isn't your girl just yet, do something to thrill her. The smallest of things can win her over.
    • Surprise her. Nobody's talking diamonds here. Flowers, her favorite food, a new CD, anything. She'll be likely to show her gratitude physically.
    • Do something for her. Has she been complaining about wanting new headphones? Did she miss biology class and needs the notes? Take the time to listen and find opportunities to help her out.
  2. Catch her in the mood. Odds are you'll be able to tell when she's feeling kissable. Take in her appearance and behavior and gauge what mood she's in.
    • If she's calm and flirty, she's there. Note if she's touching you and smiling. Make sure you have her attention and she's not distracted.
    • If she's loud and all over the place, she's probably not feeling very romantic. She may be caught up in her day or excited about something else.
  3. Get her alone. Most people aren't comfortable with displays of affection, especially if it's the first kiss. What's more, it should be cozy and intimate. Take her somewhere you won't be interrupted and you can focus on each other.
    • This includes your cell phone! Turn those notifications off!

Preparation

  1. Be kissable. Bad breath is the last thing you want on your mind to worry about. Brush your teeth and floss regularly.
    • If you expect the moment, pop a mint or chew some gum beforehand.
  2. Send signals. She needs to know that you're into her and would welcome her kiss. Make it clear that you would not turn her down--girls get just as nervous about rejection as guys, if not more.
    • Depending on your relationship, touch her lightly. This could be on her arm, hands, or leg. If you have the opportunity, throw your arm around her and keep her close.
    • Don't rush. If the relationship is new, take it slow. Good things come to those who wait, after all. She may feel the need to trust you first.
  3. Touch her emotionally. She needs not to only feel physically comfortable with you, but emotionally comfortable, too. Let her know you want her, not her body.
    • Insinuate how special she is to you. A compliment can get you a long, long way. You may not want to say this outright--she may not know what to say back. Stick to something like, "I've been wanting to take you here for a really long time. This moment is perfect," to get your point across.
    • Girls can get kissy if you show them you care. If she's going through a hard time, tell her you want to listen and then do it. Grab her in a romantic hug and take advantage of the moment.

Before the Moment

  1. Watch her reactions. As you send her those signals, see what she does. If she blushes or smiles, you're on the right track.
    • If she seems confused, don't fret. You may just be going too fast. Jog back a bit and take it slow.
    • If she's not reciprocating, it's not the right moment. Be patient. It may have nothing to do with you.
  2. Make sure the moment is right. If you're in the middle of an action movie and she's so entranced the popcorn is missing her mouth, it's not the right time. Use your own senses of whether or not to get close and personal.
    • If it's not happening, create it. Walk her to her door, take her somewhere new, or learn to play her favorite song.
  3. Focus. Look at her eyes and lips. Getting impatient or distracted (or, God forbid, focusing on other parts of her body) may scare her away.
  4. Smile. If she senses you're even the slightest bit unhappy, she may be not want to take the risk. Remember: she's reading you, too!
    • Smiling will put both of you in a better mood. It's contagious and tricks the mind.
  5. Relax. The moment is good whether she kisses you or not. Even if she doesn't now, you're putting in time for later.
    • It's easy to sense when someone is nervous. Your heart will race and you'll perspire. Remember to breathe.

Tips

  • Be yourself. Being someone else will end up in you losing the girl and yourself.
  • Take your time and make sure she is ready.
  • Be a gentleman. Girls may like bad boys, but they never stick with them.
  • Respect her privacy. Don't launch for her jeans if she does kiss you.
  • Don't kiss and tell. She may not kiss you again.
  • Don't feel bad if she doesn't want to kiss you right away make sure it's at the right time!
  • When you're done kissing, look into her eyes and smile.

Warnings

  • A situation like this is easy to stress over. If it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen. Give it time or find someone new.

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