Meet Boys While Attending an All Girls' High School
Going to an all-girls school can often put a damper on your dating life, as most girls usually meet their first boyfriends at school. Meeting boys is not altogether impossible. Here are a few tips.
Steps
- Find out where the nearest all-boys school or coed school is. Most all-girls schools have "brothers", all-boys schools that they share functions (dances, etc.) with. Try to attend events at the all boys/coed schools.
- Take advantage of any boy-meeting situations. For example, if you catch the bus to school, you may share it with some boys. If so, try to strike up a conversation with them and get to know them.
- Talk to your friends. Ask to meet their boyfriends or tell them to bring along their friends, and you could form a blissful relationship.
- Hang out at any popular local hangouts (the mall, video store, etc.).
- Get to know your brother's or your male friend's friends. If your brother is younger then "pick him up from school", and see whether any of the older boys are there.
- If you have an older sister, find out whether any of her friends have brothers.
- Get into clubs/activities that meet outside school.
- Attend after school lesson, music class, or even martial art class where boys often hang around much.
Tips
- Everyone's heard of "playing hard to get" - but most guys will assume that you're not interested and back away.
- Even if you don't like him or he doesn't like you, a friendship can lead to more boys!
- Don't act desperate... it is a definite turn-off.
- Don't freak out when having the chance to talk to a hot guy. Do that by taking some deep breaths, standing up straight, and being confident.
- Be yourself when you meet the guys: most boys can tell, if you're putting on an act.
- Approach the boy, he may be too nervous to say, "Hi". Introduce yourself and strike a conversation.
- Often, even if he likes you, he would be looking for you to say so.
- Go to the curbs near an all boys' school, and talk to the students who walk around.
- If you like him, say it.
Warnings
- Do not meet up with a stranger without telling someone where you will be, at what time to expect you back, etc.
Things You'll Need
- A boy to use these on
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