Meet Girls While Going to an All Boys' School

Meeting girls is hard, but it's a must. The more you talk, the better your odds are of finding one. Just like the more times you go fishing, the better chance you have of catching a fish.

Steps

  1. Get out. The key to meeting girls is getting out. Don't be overly involved in your school's activities.
  2. Find venues where people hang out and talk, as opposed to venues where people go to be distracted or shop. In other words, a relaxed local cafe would be more advisable than a mall or movie theater. Independent theaters and small scale concerts are exceptions (and quite advisable venues).
  3. If you are in high school, make friends with some guys from a public school through competitive extracurricular activities or common interests. They will have more female friends than you (female friends to whom you will be a novelty), or they will at least have a better idea of what girls in the area do for fun.
  4. Remember that your boys school will probably have a sister school who will be invited to mixers and sports events. Try to attend all these events.
  5. Try not to dress too much like a kid who goes to an all boy school. This would include popped collars, golfing clothes, excessive khakis, etc. However, some girls may like this.
  6. Talk to the girls you see. This is really important. Most of the time they are not going to do the work for you.

Tips

  • Be "courageous". Approach the girl; most girls are too self-conscious to approach guys.
  • Don't become immediately romantically involved with the girls you meet. Female friends lead to more females, and if you get a good reputation with a group of girls they may set you up for success with others.
  • Don't talk about yourself a lot. Ask questions. Get to "know" this girl. If you talk about yourself too much, she'll think that you're full of yourself. Most girls don't like that. (This tip comes from a girl so keep it in mind.)
  • Be polite. If you're walking into a building, hold open the door for the little lady.
  • Learn how to approach/talk to women. Meeting them and irritating them will not help you.
  • Don't be rude, use your manners. Guys that hang out with their other guy friends tend to get a bit comfortable with things that may be awkward to a girl when first getting to know her.
  • Be yourself, not your school's stereotype.
  • If you have a female friend (or relative), ask her for advice on how to approach/act when meeting new girls. It isn't too different from approaching guys but, hey, if there's something that just doesn't really click, why not ask a girl herself to explain it to you? Just don't be rude about it.

Warnings

  • Don't be afraid to talk to girls, especially ones from all-girls schools. They want to meet boys too!
  • Do not go out with the first girl you meet just because you are desperate!
  • Don't join clubs to meet girls if you aren't interested in the club.
  • If you're talking to a girl who catches your interest but see somebody who catches your interest "more", don't be rude and walk away! Listen to the girl you're talking with.
  • Some girls get insecure if you approach them and start hitting on them.
  • DON'T use pick-up lines! For the same reason as suddenly approaching a girl and hitting on her: she WILL think your tacky and she WILL already have some negative thoughts about you. If you are talking with her for awhile and you tell her a "funny" pick-up line(aka. not a real one), that's okay. (ex. She is a girl who doesn't mind jokes about what's up your nose. "If you were a booger, I'd pick you first!") If she doesn't laugh, don't use any more and tell her it was a joke, but you realized that she didn't think it was funny. Sometimes you really have to warm up to her for a few days, as friends, before you start flirting with her.
  • NEVER MEET GIRLS ONLINE IF YOU ARE UNDER 18 WITHOUT YOUR PARENTS APPROVAL! This rule applies to females typically more so than males, but it's good for guys to hear this too. Never meet a person online, even if you think that you could defend yourself against them, should they turn out to be mean. "There's always a bigger fish." - Star Wars
  • If you're interested in finding a new girlfriend and not just a regular friend...

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