Attract More Love Into Your Life

If you are yearning to love and to be loved, here are some tips for you to attract the love into your life.

Steps

  1. Be a magnet of love. You attract love by being a magnet of love. Love is what you are. The people you attract are the reflection of who you are. If you are loving, cheerful, or positive, you will attract that kind of people into your life. If you are angry, negative, or doubtful, you are more likely to attract that into your life. How do you practice being a magnet of love? It is simply by filling your heart with love and thinking happy thoughts. Think of a time when you first fell in love. Feel it. Truly feel it. How wonderful and blissful does it make you feel? Then, act upon it. Act as if you are already in love with your ideal partner. What does he/she look like? What are the values/qualities in the other person that you want to see? Imagine he/she is here right beside you. Imagine how great it feels for you to be loved by that special someone. Imagine the touch, the kisses, and the love making. Feel the softness of his/her skin, hair, the warmth of his/ her body, and hear the voice. See you both together being deeply in love, hear the laughter, and feel that strong bond of love between the two of you. When you imagine, it becomes real. Allow yourself to be unlimited. That is what you are. You are unlimited. Why limit yourself? Imagine, think, act, feel, and act upon it. Then, you will manifest it. When your heart is filled with love, you become a magnet of it.
  2. Know who you are and what you want. Here are some important questions to ask yourself: 1. Who am I? 2. What do I want? 3. What is my life purpose? 4. What qualities/ values of my ideal partner that I am searching for? 5. What is acceptable and what is not?
  3. Believe in yourself. What you believe, you achieve. Believing in yourself is a requirement for success in each area of your life. If you believe that you would attract the right partner, you will succeed. If you believe that there was no right person for you, then, you would attract the wrong person. It is very important to recognize your highest potential and be aware of how you talk to yourself. Is it positive or negative? Any time when your negative voice appears, acknowledge it and ask yourself if it is true. Then, change that thought to be a positive and loving thought. Believe that you are deserved to be loved and to be cherished. Believe that you are worthy of love. Believe that you are love, loving, and lovable.
  4. Give love freely. When you believe in yourself, you become confident. When you are confident, there is nothing to hold you back. One of the secrets of getting love is by giving it. True giving is when you give without expectation. When you give love freely, all that you give out comes back to you. It might not come back in the way you expect it, but you would truly feel it in your heart. If you can picture when you throw a boomerang, you will see how it comes back to you. What you give out comes back to you. When that love comes back to you, your heart will be filled with it. Then, you become a magnet of love and attract more love into your life.
  5. Keep your heart open to love. One simple way to keep your heart open to love is to be grateful. Get a pen and a piece of paper. Count your blessings. Write down what you are grateful for. For example:
    • I am grateful for the gift of life to experience how to live, love, learn, and grow.
    • I am grateful for the all the challenges I face and all the mistakes I've made. The experiences have taught me to become wiser and stronger.
    • I am grateful for those who hurt me because they teach me to be compassionate, loving, and forgiving. There are many things in life to be grateful for. A heart that is filled with love and gratitude is a powerful magnet of love. When you are grateful, you are happier. When you are happy, you attract happy people.
  6. Be present. This is very important. Being in the present means you are here at this moment where you are manifesting love. Stop thinking about someone who broke your heart yesterday, last week, last year, or last decades. The time is now for you to start your new life, new relationship, and new love. Let go of all the past by being here now. A simple way to practice being in the now is by focusing on your breathing. Here is how:
    • Notice where you are right now.
    • Take a deep breath all the way down your belly. Hold the breath. Then, let go.
    • Feel the body. If you feel any tension in your body, put your attention to it. Notice how it feels.
    • Focus on your deep breathing. As you exhale, let go of the tension.
    • Repeat the first step through this step. As you practice being present, you will be at peace with yourself. The present is all there is. There is no past to haunt you. There is no future to frighten you. The golden moment is here and now.
  7. Dare to dream big. Dreams come true when you believe in your dream. When you dream, it gives you hope, courage, and inspiration. Anything is possible when you believe in yourself and allow yourself to be unlimited. Your dream has to be big enough that when you think about it, you feel inspired, empowered, and energized. You even smile to yourself when you think about it. If you dream of finding your ideal partner, see yourself with that person, feel the love that you are receiving, and know that you deserve this special someone to truly love you. Be in the relationship that you have always dreamed of. Dare to dream big and start living it. You will see a miracle.
  8. Practice love. Find ways to express love everyday. Give love to yourself first. Be kind and gentle with yourself. Then, be kind and gentle with others and love others. Do something for someone each day without expecting anything in return. See only the best in others. When you see the best in others, you see the best in you. When you give love to others, love always is given back to you in many different miraculous ways.

Tips

  • A simple way to attract more love into your life is to be love, loving, and lovable.
  • Be a powerful magnet of love.
  • A simple gift of love you can give to others is your smile.
  • A simple way to keep your heart open is to be grateful for everything in life.
  • An important tip is to be authentic.
  • The least showy you are the more attractive of love you ought to be.
  • If you want love you have to give love!
  • Love yourself first and love shall come to you.

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