Know if You Are Meant to Be Someone's Friend, or They Don't Need to Be in Your Life
If you've had a fight with someone and want to know if you should still be friends again for life, if you've lost contact with a friend you had and aren't sure if you should randomly pop up unexpectedly and start talking again,or if you did something to a friend or if they did something to you and want to know if you should continue having them in your life,you've bumped into the right page!
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Steps
- Remember the good times, the bad times and think about why it happened, why you stopped communicating with each other, and think about whose fault it was that caused all of this unhealthy drama in both of your lives to happen. Was it yours? Was it theirs?
- Apologize even if it wasn't your fault and if you didn't do anything.
- Remember to forgive and forget. You would rather do that then go through this all over again!
- Once you've done those three steps, you now need to start paying real close attention to the person's reactions. Are they acting like they want you back? Or are they just creating more and more drama?
- Face it. If you've already tried getting along with them and they don't want you, then they just don't want you. Your just going to have to forget about all of it, deal with it, and simply just move on with your life. Maybe it really wasn't meant for the two of you to have each other in your lives. From here on out, you'll easily be able to tell if the two of you are meant to continue each other's lives together as friends
Tips
- Pay attention to the behavior, not the words being said. Action speak louder than words.
- Be nice to them and see if they are nice back.
- Treat them they way you did when you all got along,and see how they react.
Warnings
- If they are annoyed with you or are very mad at you, back away and distance yourself for awhile.
- If they avoid you, they obviously don't want any communication with you, so if this happens, don't even notice them if you happen to be around them. Just act like they don't exist and aren't there. & don't talk, stare, or have any communication with them at all. Give them time and space to cool down so their anger towards you will slowly start to fade away, just like the amount of time it takes for salt to dissolve in water.
