Remotivate Your Depressed Unemployed Man
Your unemployed man needs reassuring that you still believe in him. Men are strong in many ways but when they are forced into an element that over takes them and gives them no way out immediately they can fold inward and depression and loneliness can set in for good.
Steps
- Help your man with what he wants to do in his life, by researching skills and improving on ones he already has.
- Help him get into a trade if he doesn't already have a skill set you are familiar with.
- Jobs are out there and a person should search out the best job opportunities that fit what he/she know without a doubt they can fulfill.
- How does he know what he would be good at if he doesn't apply an effort?
- Encourage your man to find his level of learning, in other ways. Give him some outlets like trade schooling and certificate programs that he might be able to improve his options.
- Encourage him to explore opportunities to go back to school.
- Don't make him feel pushed. It takes support from all around him to give him the idea he has made the choice not his girlfriend or wife making him do something.
- A man should always feel like he is in control and taking care of his family.
- No man should be put down because our society is having it hard and he can't find a job. It's not his fault.
Tips
- Do not degrade his man hood.
- Give him hope.
- Love him with unconditional love.
- Tell him he can do it.
- Be the same as you always have before he became unemployed.
