Succeed in College

College is a time unlike any other in your life. You haveGet More Independence, you are in a new place, and your adult life is gradually staring you in the face. You have choices to make, and you know it. There is no secret recipe for succeeding in college; everyone does it differently, in a style all their own. Most students in college, who succeed however, share certain characteristics.

Steps

Studying

  1. Avoid Procrastination in Academic Matters. College academics, especially in the first term, will be especially difficult because it is new material that you have never seen before. Plus, you are facing much higher expectations for performance and the expectation that YOU are the one responsible for your own motivation and success. Unlike high school, college expects you to build your education from the bottom up, rather than regurgitating whatever facts a teacher feeds you. This means much more work than you are used to.
    • Give yourself incentives to study in advance. Don't cash your paycheck until you're finished with that term paper. Celebrate with friends after you've taken the test. Treat yourself to something you've been wanting after you finish your studying goals.
    • Choose your priorities. It is not possible to fit in all the same social, academic, employment, and logistical responsibilities in college that you did in high school. Be realistic about how much time is required to meet your academic obligations and how much you can devote to social activities.
  2. Get passionate about something. Take a moment to reflect on what you enjoy doing and studying, and what you're genuinely interested in. What are your goals? What are your plans? College is another step on the ladder to the rest of your life. What do you want to do after college, and how will college prepare you for that next step?
  3. Get a Good Education Most colleges require a broad range of classes in the beginning, often referred to as "general education" or "distribution" requirements. Even if you've already declared your major and know what you want to study, the distribution requirements build critical skills such as written and oral communication, critical thinking and problem solving skills. Keep your mind open and look for ways to apply these skills within your major.
    • Another reason to take advantage of this broad range of classes in college is that you're likely to change careers over your lifetime, and even a class or two can make an impact in know-how and understanding. Anecdotally, you are likely to be in a different field at the end of your career than the one in which you started. [1]
  4. Ignore Fake Rumours. Learn to use observations and evidence to form your own opinions. Attend special events and seminars on campus. Join clubs for students in your major program. Read a *reliable* news site every day. You are your own person, and you owe it to yourself to form your own opinions about things.
  5. Talk to your professors. A big mistake college students make is never forming a relationship with their professors. Forming a relationship with professors can help make your education richer and your network bigger.
    • Go to office hours with the serious intent of improving your mastery of the course material, NEVER just to "show your face" in an attempt to suck up, change a grade, or appear more dedicated. Office hours are your opportunity for extra help with ideas and methodologies with which you are having trouble. Arrive prepared with specific questions. Brings your class notes and your textbook. Ask specific questions about the concepts where you need help. Professors will not repeat an entire lecture that you missed. Professors want to help you, but always remember that YOU are responsible for your own motivation and your own success.
    • Look for a mentor. A mentor can be a professor or staff member who can dispense advice specific to your personal goals. Start with the professors in your major department. There is usually a program advisor who helps you choose classes, and can make recommendations on graduate school. However, do not expect a mentor to secure a job for you after you have graduated.
  6. Form good study habits. Everyone studies in a different way. Having a television or music in the background is a bad idea. Some people like to study alone. Some people like studying in groups. Find out what habits work best for you. Ask yourself and answer these questions:
    • How much time does it take an idea to stick for you? Do you need weeks before the light bulb goes off, or days?
    • What kind of a learner are you? Keep in mind that while you may have a preferred way of learning things, this does not excuse you from engaging with other teaching and learning styles. [2] Are you:
      • An auditory learner? Do you learn by hearing something? You would rather have an idea explained aloud than reading in.
      • A visual learner? Do you learn by seeing something? You would rather learn by looking at graphs, reading, or watching a demonstration.
      • A kinesthetic learner? Do you learn by touching something? You would rather build whatever you're reading about, and see it in action.
    • What time of the day do you work best? Do you bust out a lot of work in the morning, or are you a night owl?
  7. Set an academic goal for yourself. If you don't set any academic goal, you might leave college wondering whether you tried enough. Your academic goal doesn't have to be the same as someone else's goal. Try to be realistic about it when you set it; balance it out with other personal goals you may have. Getting through college isn't always about getting a 4.0 or graduating summa cum laude. It's about doing the best you're capable of, given your resources.

Socializing

  1. Establish as many friendships as possible. If you're at a bigger school, you may find the sheer number of new people a bit intimidating. That's okay. Everyone feels that way at first. Get past the intimidation of the numbers and you'll find dozens, if not hundreds, of people that you get with and learn from. Many people look back on their college years with good memories, often because of the friendships that they made.
  2. Get involved in clubs, traditions, and events. College events are lot different from the compulsory events you might have done in high school. Because no one is forced to participate, the people who are there enjoy being there on their own. It's no secret the real draw of clubs and events is the social aspect. You'll probably meet a lot of people with similar interests, a few people you don't get along with, and a few people with absolutely amazing backgrounds. C'est la vie: it's a cross-section of life.
    • Take the time to do clubs and events outside your immediate social circle. It's fine to invite your best friends to participate in your club's activities. But what if bringing your friends along means that you wouldn't have met another potential friend? Try to meet as many interesting people as possible during your time in college. Don't make friendship an exclusive right shared only by you and your inner circle.
  3. Go to parties. Be yourself and get in the mood for meeting new people. However, be smart and be cautious. Go with friends and use the buddy system. Be your friend's keeper. Keep an eye on your friend and see if s/he's drinking too much, and ask your friend to keep an eye on you also. Never leave your friend alone, impaired, in an unsafe or unfamiliar environment.
    • Be a gracious party-goer. Don't litter bottles around someone's room, make a mess in someone's kitchen, or use someone's bed without their permission. Bring cups or soda, or if you're old enough, beer or wine. It's never bad being the person that the host takes a liking to because they're generous and well-mannered.
    • Be careful about drugs. Know which drugs are likely to harm you and which drugs are milder. (Alcohol and marijuana in moderation aren't likely to put you into the emergency room, but cocaine, meth, hallucinogenic, and painkillers can all be potentially fatal.) Some students find that college is a time to experiment with drugs, but follow your conscience. Don't do anything you're not comfortable doing. In addition, remember that more often than not, you don't know what's in a particular drug.
  4. If you decide to have sex, make it safe. Many college-bound freshmen are still alarmingly ignorant about sex. In college, people like to brag about sex. The truth is that college students have sex at a much lower rate than their braggadocio might suggest. One study found that a majority of participants had 1 or fewer sexual partner over the course of a year.[3] Another survey found that 59% of students reported having no sexual partners in the last 30 days.[3]
    • Always use protection. Whether you're a guy or a girl, always keep a condom on you if you're sexually active. If used correctly, a condom is 98% effective in preventing pregnancy.[4] Don't agree on sex unless you or your partner uses protection. Contracting HIV, herpes, or another STI is as easy as having unprotected sex one time. And unlike your excitement, which will fade with time, an STI like herpes won't go away.[5]
    • Understand that alcohol severely impairs your judgment and decision-making skills. Even a small amount of alcohol will decrease your inhibitions, meaning that you'll find it easier to justify having sex with someone you might not have if you were sober.[6] Understand this before you start drinking.
    • Get straight on the myths about sex. Let's debunk some of the myths about sex:
      • "The birth control pill protects me from STIs." Myth. Birth control will not protect you from STIs like HIV/AIDS.[7]
      • "I can't get pregnant if I'm on my period." Myth. You can absolutely get pregnant when you're on your period.
      • "I can't get pregnant if I'm a virgin and it's my first time having sex." Myth. Unfortunately, this is false. You still have a 5% chance of getting pregnant.
      • "The birth control pill is effective the first day you start taking it." Myth. It can take up to a month for the birth control pill to become effective.
  5. Never eat alone. (Actually, if you feel like it, eating alone doesn't have to be a bad thing.) Taken from the name of a book by Keith Ferrazzi[8], the idea is that networking, or making connections that might jumpstart your career at a later date, can be made easy and doesn't have to be a bad thing. Make the most of your opportunities while you're in college. Turn time in the mess hall into a rewarding lesson in personal development.

Health, Safety and Finances

  1. Eat healthy, exercise, and get enough rest. All three seem to be on the shortlist for things college students do least. If you want to succeed in college, however, and learn how to balance work, play, and a thousand different things in between, you'll need to start getting serious about your health.
    • The optimal diet for a college student is the same as it is for everyone else: eat lean meat or protein, fruits and vegetables, whole grains, and stay away from sodas, candy, simple carbohydrates, and saturated fats.[9] Not only will you feel better, but you'll also be in better shape to avoid the infamous Avoid the Freshman 15
    • Exercise is a miracle drug, except that it's not really a drug. Exercise helps us burn fat, build muscle, lower cholesterol, ease stress, and sleep better.[10] Join an intramural sports team, do laps in the gym pool, or simply take the stairs instead of the elevator. If you do nothing else, try to get in 30 minutes of walking a day.
    • Get enough sleep. One of the best ways to maximize academic performance on tests is getting a good night's sleep.[11] In fact, students who pull all nighters, students with sleep disorders, and students who routinely stay up late on weeknights all perform worse in college than students who get regular, comfortable, lasting sleep.[11]
  2. Visit the university health center. The university health center will have all sorts of information about staying healthy on campus, in addition to housing the university's best doctors. Take advantage of the free amenities your health center offers: free vaccines, condoms, and counseling are among the most common.
  3. If your college has a safety department, use it. Many colleges and universities will have a public safety department that looks after the safety of the university population. Public safety officers will routinely:
    • Escort you to your home or dorm if you feel unsafe.
    • Give you valuable safety tips about living in your area (especially applicable in an urban setting).
    • Investigate crimes that happen on campus. If you've been a victim of a crime, especially robbery, rape, coercion, or assault, please notify the campus security and/or local police.
  4. Budget out your expenses. College is a time when kids start behaving like grown-ups. Part of being a grown-up is having a budget. To make a budget, take an inventory of the money you'll have during any given month. Look at your past expenses, and budget out how much you'll allow yourself to spend during that month. The expenses should not exceed the amount of money you have. A sample budget might look like this:
    • Total amount of income per month: $1300.
      • Housing: $600
      • Food: $250
      • Books and school supplies: $100
      • Gas: $200
      • Discretionary spending: $150
  5. Apply for Financial Aid for College. Apply for Federal Student Aid, or FAFSA[12] before going to college, and check back routinely for new financial aid opportunities. Check with your college's student aid department to find out if you apply for any financial aid or merit-based scholarships. There's a lot of financial aid floating around out there if you know how to find it.
  6. Look for work-study opportunities. Your college or university needs employees to function, and it probably knows that giving its students a chance to work is a winning bet. Check with your school about work-study opportunities. Much of the time, you'll get paid to do a mindless, nominal task like man the library entrance. This should also give you opportunities to study while you earn a paycheck.
    • Other times, the college or university will pay you to perform research with a teacher or department. This is where having a mentor (see above) becomes important. Letters of reference are necessary to convince the department that you are a qualified candidate for the research position. Such positions are extremely competitive, require an excellent academic background and strong letters of reference, and require a great deal of work.
  7. If you can, save money. If you're getting a scholarship or financial aid, or your parents are helping you out with expenses, try as much as possible to save money while you're still in college. After you leave college and become the arbiter of your own life, you'll have to start paying bills. Those bills will be a lot easier to pay if you stored away a little nest egg while you were still in college. Other reasons to save money in college:
    • Study abroad costs money. Lots of it. If you want to study in Florence, Italy or Shanghai, China, or virtually anywhere else, it's going to cost you a pretty penny. There are scholarships and aid, but you can't always count on them.
    • Student loans take time to pay off. If you're like most college students, you'll have a lot of loans to pay off once you leave college. Getting them (and the interest payments) paid off can play a huge part in what your budget looks like after you graduate.



Tips

  • Remember who you are, what you are doing, and why you are doing it.
  • Do the problems at the end of each chapter, get a solutions manual to help you when you are stuck, but only if your university honor code allows it, otherwise a solutions manual is cheating and grounds for suspension or expulsion.
  • If you're having trouble understanding, ask for help! Ask your professor or a tutor to help you.
  • If you are an easily sidetracked person, find ways to minimize distractions to optimize learning ability.
  • Make your goal to learn the material, not to get a grade. Professors are far more likely to write strong letters of reference for students who focus on building their knowledge and skills, regardless of the grade earned in class. It is very difficult for a professor to write a good letter for a student who slacks off (fails to attend class, surfs the internet during class, does poorly on exams) and then blames everyone else for a poor grade.
  • Try to sit in a place where you are comfortable during class. Usually it is easier to stay focused when sitting up front.
  • Stay healthy by doing five things:
  • Read ahead. If you know the professor is going to cover a certain section, try to read about it ahead of time. This way, you will have a more thorough understanding and can ask questions in class.
  • Do not rely on late night study sessions or cramming. Such actions do not work.
  • Find Cheap College Textbooks Online or from fellow classmates who have taken the course to save at least $200 a quarter/semester on textbooks you might only study once.
  • Cramming and procrastination only work for a select few, who are innately equipped to handle the pressure of completing tasks at the last minute to a fair degree of quality. If you aren't able to deal with these demands, don't risk it.
  • Be Realistic about what you are able to in college. The entire experience is about learning how to balance your time, meet your obligations, gain maturity, and take responsibility for your actions.
  • Use old exams as study guides, but only as a guide. You need to fundamentally understand the material. Exams will not ask the same questions, word for word the same as in an old exam or in a study guide. After the exam, review the questions that you got wrong and make sure you can answer them correctly. The professor obviously thought it was important enough to test you on - and you may see it again on another exam.

Warnings

  • Do not be afraid to make a few mistakes or take risks; just remember to learn from them.
  • The best course of action, but perhaps not the safest one, is to learn for yourself what you wish to know about your strengths and weaknesses.
  • Everyone is different, and therefore no specific strategy will work across the board due to the variations from person to person.
  • The steps and tips toward making your first year in college a successful one are based on overarching, basic, and general principles that are constructed for ease of application. They are based on pure observation and first-hand experimentation; do not perceive these tips as pedagogical or idealistic admonishments meant to restrict your freewill to choice of action.

Things You'll Need

The following is a list of basic, essential things you might want to bring for your first year in college. Some things may have been left out that you would find absolutely crucial, so do not take this list as complete or literal as it certainly is not limited. Also, there is no particular order of importance, because each item more or less contributes to your preparedness.

  • Recycle Office Supplies (paper, printer ink, pens, pencil, calculator, stapler, etc.)
  • At least two sets of bedding (pillow cases, sheets)
  • Enough clothes to last at least two weeks and at most three weeks
  • An organizing container, perhaps one of those plastic drawer sets
  • Arts and Entertainment. Bring hobby materials, Pack a Bag for out of Town Sports Games (Girls), books you enjoy, movies and/or other things your enjoy.
  • Buy a Computer (depending on your level of usage for it, some people will want an incredibly fast machine, but most use their computers for general program applications and word processing) A laptop computer is highly recommended, because it allows for portability when going home and increases one's ability to type up lecture notes. Also, professors often talk incredibly fast so typing notes most definitely trumps writing them out. Plus, times new roman is probably neater than your handwriting!
  • Reliable printer + accompanying black ink cartridges (you don't really need color ink much)
  • Mini fridge (great for cooling water, juice, milk, fruit, etc.)
  • Microwave (not that important, but comes in handy once in a while.)
  • Collapsible boxes or storage bins (great for bringing things back and forth from home, and also comes in handy when you move out of your dorm at the end of the year)
  • Water! You will get incredibly thirsty in your room and should have some readily available water reserves at hand. A filter would satisfy this requirement, but some might prefer bottled spring water. Depends on what you like.
  • Snacks - Snacks are great for those late nights studying, or at times in which you have to skip a meal. Granola bars have done wonders.
  • Cold/Flu Medicine - Face it, you will Avoid Getting Sick at School at least once or twice while at school, and having medicine ready will only work to your advantage!
  • Make a Toiletry Bag (toothpaste, mouth wash, shampoo/conditioner, body wash, scrubber, as many towels as you can bring so you don't have to do laundry as often)
  • Carrying case for toiletries (not very necessary unless your room is far from the common baths and you are not provided with some cubby space to place your items)
  • Laundry detergent
  • A reusable plastic bottle container to transport water or coffee
  • Money

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Sources and Citations

  1. ↑ http://www.starnewsonline.com/article/20080608/CAREERS03/709742305
  2. ↑ http://www.learningrx.com/types-of-learning-styles-faq.htm
  3. ↑ 3.0 3.1 http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/college-student-sex-stats-am-i-only-one-not-doing-it
  4. ↑ http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/condoms.htm
  5. ↑ http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes.htm
  6. ↑ http://www.goshen.edu/studentlife/counseling/sexuality/alcohol/
  7. ↑ http://www.webmd.com/sex/birth-control/birth-control-pills
  8. ↑ http://keithferrazzi.com/products/never-eat-alone
  9. ↑ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/08/14/simple-food-diet_n_1775599.html
  10. ↑ http://www.webmd.com/fitness-exercise/guide/default.htm
  11. ↑ 11.0 11.1 http://www.aasmnet.org/articles.aspx?id=659
  12. ↑ http://www.fafsa.ed.gov/
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