Avoid Turning a Guy off
We all have crushes, but how do we know what turns a guy on and what turns him completely off?
Steps
- Don't stare. It's creepy and annoying. If you do it too much, you might be presumed to be a stalker (unless he is obviously looking for a relationship). Look at him when he's talking to you, and then every now and then look down or around then look again. Don't just sit and look straight at him or he will think you are crazy. It's okay to look at him but not 24/7. If you look at him a lot, he might get creeped out.
- Calm down. Don't let your anxiety get to you, since it can make you act jittery and weird. Most guys don't like girls that are always shouting, yelling, and screaming.
- Be judicious with your laughter. It's good to laugh when it's appropriate, but only do so if it's actually funny. Otherwise, it's annoying and he might doubt your sincerity.
- Make sure you look clean, neat, and groomed at all times. Your hair should be smooth, your skin should be clear and not exceedingly greasy, and please brush your teeth. Nothing is more disgusting than bad breath and BO.
- Shave leg, armpit, and lip hair. This could be an instant turn-off.
- Show an open or opening gesture or expression.
- Be very mature, for example: don't act like a 4th grader who tells on everybody who says "crap" or yells "poop" all the time. Also, don't swear in your attempts to look cool in front of him or attract his attention. Guys like women who are mature and intelligent as well.
- Smile. There is nothing like a good facial smile.
- Smell good! This is a major turn on; think about it, I'm sure you've stood too close to someone that smelled bad. Did it turn you on? I bet not. Wear deodorant and maybe a little bit of perfume, 3 sprays at max. Too much smell can be a turn off, too! Also takes showers and baths every night.
Tips
- When he stares at you, look back and smile then look away, It will get him interested.
- Be nice. Guys don't like girls who are just plain mean. Don't think you can imitate "Mean Girls" and still get a nice guy. Feel free to tease him or make fun of him a bit, but don't go overboard or he may get the wrong impression.
- Men don't pick up on "subtle hints" like girls do, so don't be afraid to be a little forward because otherwise they won't even know you like them in the first place. Let them know you're interested, but not desperate.
- Each guy is different, so there may be turn-offs and turn-on's that are unique to your crush.
- Never try to show off for him,it' very obvious.
- being brainless and stupid is old. it may get you the 'popular' status, but it's not doing anything for you in the long run. especially with guys.
- When he is teasing you fall for it. Nothing is cuter than jokingly pick on you and your humbled self falls for it.
- Most guys aren't into girls that play "hard to get". It gets really annoying. If you like him, show it. He'll appreciate it.
- You do have a brain for a reason. Use it.
- Use common sense.
- If you are sweating badly, avoid hugging him or even being close to him. Some guys just hate when girls sweat and it can look pretty disgusting.
Warnings
- Don't mistake sexual attraction for true love.
- Don't try to make him jealous. He will most likely pick up on it and it gets VERY annoying.
- Even with all these things, a guy may still not be interested in you. That's life.
- You can't make someone like you, but trying seems to help guide him in the right direction. Don't try too hard. i can't stress this enough.
Things You'll Need
- Crush/boyfriend/date/etc...
- Toothbrush
- Razor
- Hairbrush, Flat Iron, Blow dryer, etc.
