Forget About a Girl You Love Who Has a Boyfriend
Have you ever loved a girl that is with another guy? And was constantly talking about him to you? Try to follow these steps to help forget about her. This can also work if she is engaged or married already.
This can also work if you are in a complicated love triangle.
Steps
- Try to find someone else that you like. This might take a while and you shouldn't force yourself to like someone right away. In this position of depression, you are very vulnerable to emotional attacks. Just go with the flow and avoid her. Go different ways.
- Don't listen to any slow songs or love songs... you will just miss her more.
- If you are friends with her, make it clear to yourself that friendship is all she wants. She has her boyfriend because she likes him!
- Be sensitive to her, but not overly. You'll just be digging a deeper hole for yourself.
- There are other women, who will accept you! Go for it. There's plenty of fish in the sea.
- Go out and have some fun. Don't just stay at home thinking about what she's doing with the boyfriend.
- Allow Yourself Time to Cry over a girl who doesn't like you.
- Do not let yourself think that you're not attractive, or that you will never find someone better. There is always someone better.
- If she has a Myspace, Facebook, etc, avoid her page. Seeing her and her boyfriend there will just hurt.
- Don't have her within your top 5/10/etc, unless you are practically best friends. She'll just be suspicious.
- Try not to look at her.
- If you start to think about her, then think about someone else.
- Don't call or IM her a lot. That's just not cool.
- Unless you have a legit reason, just don't call/text her.
- Don't look at her as the most important person in your life.
- Say no to her once in a while.
- If you are a student: Forget her because it could affect your mental health, which will directly affect your exams. After all, your degree is more important.
- There are billions of women in the world, one tiny fish in the sea is not going to make your life worse, you have to be confident in your self and realize that you have the guts to move on.
- Wasting your time with her is going to make your life worse, realize that she is nothing anymore.
- Listen to music, go workout or run, go do a sport you can take your frustration out on ex: Wrestling, Boxing, Hockey etc.
- Hang out with your guy friends (only guys) and go out and have a good time.
- Don't fight with the boyfriend. It will only make the situation between you and the girl worse. If you fight, one of you might get injured whether or not you fought. It may lead to having the authorities called and/or a restraining order, Be Careful!
- Don't reminisce about the old times
- Try not to get kicked out because of her
- Don't write songs about her anymore
- Find a new best friend
- Don't go to the things that remind you of her like... Ice cream you used to buy for her, your favorite shows, things you used to do together.
- Never regret yourself that you loved her .
- Don't think that you are a failure in love. Maybe she's not lucky enough to have a guy like you.
- Stop thinking of what could have been, it will drive you crazy
- Tell yourself she wasn't good enough for you.
- Try to stay away from your crush if you both work in the same office. If you find this difficult, consider relocating if the option is available.
Tips
- Stop reading this article, it's just reminding you of the person you're trying to forget.
- Never, ever, take out your frustration on someone, it's not worth the trouble and it can lead to someone getting hurt.
- Build on your own character and skills, to radiate your personality is to attract your kind of girls.
- Don't lose hope.
- Never ever tell her that you like her when she has a boyfriend or girlfriend. She may tell him or her and cause problems for the both of you.
- This may seem silly, but think of things about the girl that you find unattractive, like if she does something weird. It will help you realize you may not like her that much, and also to forget her.
- Keep on telling yourself that there are many many other more important things for you to care about, like work, studies, and other things.
- Don't try to pretend to be her best friend and show her that you are actually her well wisher...there'll be time when she'll have a clash with her present boyfriend or girlfriend, just wait for the time and that would be the time a jerk who doesn't understand that no means no would try to get her back by emotions and sympathies instead of respecting the fact that she's just not that into you.
- You may not need to forget about her completely, if you are friends with the girl.
- Don't ever threaten or fight her boyfriend. You could end up in jail.
- Suppose you already had a girlfriend and there was a time when you had a clash with her. Would you want someone who acts like a friend to you, and whom you're still not attracted to, to try to get you with emotions and sympathies instead of respecting the fact that you're just not that into her or him?
- Realize there are less fortunate people in this world, who do not have food, water, clothing, shelter, freedom, etc. There is also plenty of people who are suffering natural disasters or war. You will stop and think that if you think you've had it hard forgetting about a girl who has a boyfriend already, think about these people, you are luckier than they are right now.
- If you get a taken girl pregnant, you're in big trouble, even with her boyfriend.
- Avoid chivalry towards a girl with a boyfriend. You could make her cheat on him.
- Don't give up on her. If she has a boyfriend, wait for them to have a fight or break up. When they do, comfort her and show your support for her. This will slowly win her over.
