Get Someone to Like You Without Ever Talking to Them

Encouraging someone to like you without talking to them involves flirting through body language and making it clear that you're attracted to them through being friendly and happy.

Steps

  1. Look at your crush frequently. Don't do it too much––just enough to make eye contact at least once. Studies show that making eye contact with one person three times usually leaves them open to being approached.[citation needed]
    • It's really important not to overdo the looking; if it's staring, then it'll feel stalkerish.
  2. Become friends with your crush's friends. By being friendly with the, this will leave good impressions and will help to encourage them to talk kindly about you. Their friends may then indirectly comment on what a good person you are, invoking your crush's interest.
  3. Find out what your crush is interested in. Leave things related to that around you. They'll notice. For example, if they're into making homemade jewelry, make a necklace yourself and then wear it. If they're into motorbikes, wear a shirt with a motorbike on it.
  4. Don't spend all of your time around your crush, in their space. Give them wide berth at times, to give them the opportunity to miss you and wonder about you.

Tips

  • Try not to make it to obvious you like them just be yourself with a smile on your face.
  • Smile! They'll be less afraid of approaching you first if they see you're a good person.
  • Don't look at them too much or they will think you like them.

Warnings

  • Don't obsess over them. They may take your behavior as stalkerish.
  • Don't appear to try too hard. If it's not working, maybe you should try a different tactic, as in actually talking to them.

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