Get a Guy to Truly Feel for You

This article, based on actual life experience, may help you win him over in less than a month.

Steps

  1. Get to know him. How can you possibly win him if you don't know him? This will be 99.9% easy if he's in your class. Crack a joke in class or say something about him. Be sure that it's something that will get his attention.
  2. Try to be near him. At least hang out with the people he hangs out with. If he prefers to hang out by himself sometimes catch up and ask him questions, like "what are you interests?" simple things that will get him to notice you.
  3. Don't be shy. Guys don't go for shy girls, because they know they are hard to meddle with. Remember to be always out there! Pop out! Like a pretty pony! Make others laugh, look cool, even be silly near your friends, all these things can pull attention. If he's serious, then be smart and act cool.
  4. Try not to fight. Don't try to get into drama with him for attention, guys don't like that. Agree with him as much as you can, if he asks for your opinion, a yes or no question, nod and smile. There's no need to talk, that's the better way!
  5. Touch him. Humans are very physical. We all like hand shakes, hugs, kisses and all other kinds of contact. You need to be able to make contact. But always remember to stay in your comfort zone, don't let a guy make you do something you don't like!
  6. Make sure he's single. How must you win a guy you like if he is already taken? This is a warning, if he is taken he will not like your flirts and things that seem to be "sweet." Ask him if he's had any girl friends in the past, you can make someone up to make sure it's not like an odd question, and add your experiences too.
  7. Don't be selfish. Don't always talk about yourself, tell him some things you like and do. But also hear him out, no one likes to listen all the time!
  8. Don't be stupid. This is a big one, all girls sometimes act dumb and stupid near a boy they like, but this isn't going to help! You know what stupid means near a boy, as in too goofy.
  9. Facebook. Does he have a Facebook? If he doesn't suggest him to make one, if he does add him, and don't constantly post posts about him. Remember he can see what you post and to many things about him will seem a little obsessive.
  10. Say casual things if he has Facebook or another social media account. Ask how he is, or what's going on in his life.
  11. Write on his wall. See if he replies, if he doesn't he might not have seen, but don't overdo it, he might be ignoring it for a reason.
  12. Always wave and say hi! There's a guy I like and I always said "hi!" He always said out loud or quietly, "hi." and waved, and at times where he couldn't talk, he smiled and waved while looking back!
  13. Don't be annoying. You want this guy to really like you and you like him so of course you're not going to sabotage it by being a brat.

Tips

  • Any guy worth having will like the real you.
  • If you realize he's not into you, or not even treating you like a friend, let him go.
  • Do not put yourself own in front of him. For example, "I'm fat!" Guys do not like that at all. If you are not confident in your looks, than who will be?
  • Always tell him the truth
  • Don't let him break your heart, you're too good for that! If he tries to, realize that there are better, more deserving people out there!
  • Be confident guys like confident girls!
  • Be yourself.
  • Never be too clingy, they'll get bored of it quickly and decide you're too obsessive to get into a relationship with.
  • Never try to become the center of attention in a bad way
  • Remember friends are forever. It's sometimes better to opt for a friendship rather than a relationship.
  • Make a strong friendship. Friends ALWAYS get in a relationship. but don't feel like you have to please him, if he's a jerk let him go.
  • Some guys have a method, where they ignore a girl they like so she will want him.
  • To show that you are out going, make sure he catches you laughing with your friends, maybe acting a little silly.
  • Try to make sure he gets to know you before you jump into a relationship because things could get very awkward.
  • Make sure you don't fake an interest in something he likes just to get his attention, this will only end badly!

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