Control an Infatuation With a Girl
First you have to remember. Remember that this will be a passing feeling, it is here today and gone tomorrow. However, if self-control isn't one of your obvious many virtues, and you feel you need to pronounce your love for her on the spot, then this article is for you!
Steps
- Do something else! If you sit and think about this girl is going to be like flushing a toilet with you as the toilet paper! Go play video games, football, hang out with the guys. Keep your mind active and on something else.
- If the girl you are lusting after likes you back, wait. Too many relationships have been ruined from jumping in really fast and getting "out" real fast. If your crush and you still like each other after the infatuation is gone, then stay together. Remember, relationships are not built on lovey-dovey feelings, they are based of of friendship, attraction and chemistry.
- If your feelings are getting the best of you, then step back and look at the situation objectively. Do I really like this girl for her mind and attitude, not just her body? Can I see my self starting a family with her? What does her mother look like? (This one is almost guaranteed to work because most girls' mothers don't look that great. Basically the theme is that do you want to live with her mother, because that is what she will turn into, though not literally.)
Tips
- Remember, you control your feeling and no one else! Don't let anyone tell you to follow your heart, as this can lead to very bad places!
