Improve Your Chances of Getting a Date with the Girl You Want (for Teens)

Tips to improve your chances of not getting slapped when you ask the 'girl-of-your-dreams' out.

Steps

  1. Find out what she thinks of your friends. There was an amazingly cute guy at my school, but because he hung out with mean and rude guys, none of the girls would talk to him much.
  2. Don't be mean to her REAL friends. If you didn't get their point in the first tip, FRIENDS ARE IMPORTANT TO GIRLS!!! Become friends with one of her best friends; if she likes you, the friends might let it slip. Or she might make your crush AWARE of the fact that you are interested in her. BUT don't get too close she might suspect that you like her friend and write you off as "just a friend" and start going out with some other guy.
    • If you have the guts come up to her while she is in a group of girls if you are sure she likes you. They think it's sweet.
  3. Be sweet. A guy who is unwilling to look a TINY bit silly for a girl is not worth going out with. Get her a rose (NOT RED. She'll make fun of you, no red roses till you've said 'I love you', or you've been dating 9+ months) Try white or yellow, possibly pink if she knows you like her as more than a friend. Flowers are the way to a girls heart. Ask one of her friends what she likes. Most guys don't give their girlfriends flowers. You'd be surprised at how many points you get for a small $4 flower.
  4. Don't stalk her. Attention is flattering, girls love it. But you NEED to have a life outside of your relationship (friends, or more)
  5. Don't be wishy-washy. Girls like a guy who is assertive, BUT do what she wants some-most of the time. Girls like making a guy figure out what he needs to do, PLUS you'll get bonus points if you figure it out yourself. If you seriously don't know ask her friends or another girl.
  6. Take care of your self. Here's a MUST list:
    • Keep your hair clean.
    • No greasy skin. Worse than the hair, there are acne products for guys, use them.
    • Have great fitting jeans, not too lose, but not the super tight ones, just have one pair, they'll always look good.
    • Teeth, try to be white. If you have braces, get green or blues, not gray, silver or yellow, no red (it brings out green) and try to get medium to light colors, not dark.
  7. Don't be clingy. Girls hate it when you go to their house every day.

Tips

  • Do something, like carry her books; it's easy, free, and she'll love you, plus she'll love it because it sends the signal that guys like her and she'll love you for doing it.
  • Read The Game by Neil Strauss

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