Win a Teenage Girl's Heart
So boys, wondering how to get a girl you like? Well here are some very good instructions and if you follow them correctly, you will surely succeed!
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Steps
- Be confident. Girls love it when boys have confidence. To act confident, you have to believe in yourself. However, do not be cocky.
- Be romantic. Girls almost always fall for romantic guys.
- Make her laugh. Girls love funny guys! But don't say disgusting things that you think are funny, as that will only gross her out.
- Show her that you care about her! For instance, tell her that you are willing to help her with her homework (If she asks you to help her with homework) rather than going to your friend's party.
- Look and smell good. Dress in cool clothes and wear some nice cologne or something, but don't go overboard.
- Smile often when you are with her.
- Make eye contact. If she looks back at you, then the answer might be positive! But don't just keep staring at each other for an hour with nothing else to do.
- Stick up for her. If someone speaks poorly of her, even if not seriously, do not tolerate this.
- Flirt! Most girls like flirty guys. But don't overdo it. You can flirt with her by smiling a lot, tickling her softly (though some girls may not like to be tickled), complimenting her, telling her it was fun being with her or winking at her (many girls think it's really sexy when a boy winks at them, so give it a try!). You can also flirt in your own ways, as long as you don't do something that she doesn't like. Groping inappropriately will make a very bad impression.
- Ask her out to somewhere special, someplace she'd never forget. If the two of you have been hanging out for a week or so, and you feel like she might be into you, don't be afraid to ask her out. Have faith in yourself, and think of how much it's worth it to ask because if she agrees, you will have plenty of fun.
- Make it a romantic date. Take a walk with her at sunset on the beach. That would be the perfect place to try to kiss her.
- Make sure you're in a private place if you want to kiss. Most girls prefer a private romantic kiss. This doesn't mean you take her to your room in your bed. Take her to a quiet, romantic looking place and she'll most probably get the message that you want a kiss. But if she doesn't want to come to a private place with you, that either means that she's not ready to kiss you, it's her first time, she feels uncomfortable with you or she's just nervous or shy. Don't force it when she's ready you will know.
- Tease her, and be playful. Don't hurt her feelings though, tease her in a joking and funny manner, and make sure that she knows that you're just joking. Never tease her by making fun of her.
- Try to find out if she's happy and comfortable with you.
- Hold her hand. If she tries to come closer to you, it can signal that she's into you. If she just smiles and/or blushes, it may mean that she likes you but she's shy.
- Tell her that she looks beautiful and smile, but be sincere. Nothing is worse than telling a girl she's beautiful when she knows it's not true. Try complimenting her on specific things, like how pretty her hair is, or how soft her hand feels in yours.
- Pay attention to her body language. If she tries to come closer to you, holds your hand and squeezes it gently, smiles a lot, looks at you most of the time, snuggles to you, hugs you, pecks your cheek, then it means that she likes you and she's happy to be with you and she was really looking forward to going out with you. (If she doesn't pay much attention to you, you could make her jealous by flirting with another girl in front of her. Be cautious with this.)
Tips
- Don't keep on and on and on speaking about your date. You might get on her nerves.
- If she gives you a kiss on the cheek, do not act immature or look like a goon. Girls hate that
- If you kissed on your date and had fun, or if you think she is into you, don't be scared! Tell her that you like her!
- A technique that girls use for an excuse to snuggle to the boy is to shake as if she were cold. If she does that, don't lose your chance and wrap your arms around her. This will make her feel safe and secure. She will definitely love it, especially if you have muscles!
- If you kissed, you don't need to let the whole world know about it.
- After your date, just hang around with her like a friend. Don't be pushy and don't try to kiss her in front of everyone. If you do, she might think you are using her. Be friendly to her after the date.
- Make sure she's comfortable and happy with kissing you.
- Don't be too shy to make the first moves! Most girls prefer guys to make the first moves and they mostly go for confident guys!
- Don't immediately insert your tongue in her mouth! That won't help at all! Let every thing go slow and soft. That's how most girls like it!
- Make the kiss very soft, light, and gentle. Do not try to eat her up!
- Stroke her cheeks very softly with your thumb. Make it so soft that she can barely feel your thumb. Girls like that.
- Tell her she's gorgeous, tell her she's the most beautiful girl you have ever met. When you say romantic stuff to a girl, she would probably not make eye contact with you, but she will smile and/or blush. She will melt from the inside!
- A lot of girls drop little hints, for example if you said "I don't like girls who flirt a lot" she might say something like "Yeah! I hate when people do that" or "That's why I'm not like that". So remember to watch for the little comments, or gestures.
- If you are at a movie together, put your arm around her. If she settles in your arm, then it means that she wanted you to do this and she's happy to be near you.
- At the end of your date, tell her how much fun you had and ask her if she had any fun.
- If you really want to let her know you're into her, but feel shy to tell her yourself, don't have your friend tell her for you. It will make you seem as though you lack confidence, which, to many girls, is a turn off. If you can't tell her yourself, maybe you aren't ready to tell her yet.
- Don't use the words "I love you" to tell her that you like her. Tell her something like "I really like you."
- If a strand of her hair is in her face, gently tuck it behind her ear while making eye contact with her. Girls think this technique is very romantic, and it would make her melt if you did it right.
- Try not to ask her straight away if she wants to kiss you. Girls like it when guys drop hints that they want to kiss them, and if they also want to, they drop hints as well. Girls think that it's romantic when a guy figures out they want a kiss through their hints. And plus, it's really fun to stroke her face or run your fingers through her hair! She will enjoy it too!
- Run your fingers softly through her hair (If her hair is not tied). Most girls love it when a guys play with their hair!
- Keep you cell phone switched off or on silent during the date.
- Don't be disappointed if she didn't kiss you, maybe since it was your first date, she was just shy or nervous.
- If you are planning to tell a girl you like her, it's a good idea to tell her a few days after your date. Don't tell her before your date!
- If she makes the first move and kisses you, then it means she's totally into you!
- Whisper to her while kissing her. Girls really love it when you whisper nice things like "I've dreamed of kissing you since the first minute I saw you!" or "you're beautiful." Make sure, though, that your lips do not lose contact with hers. Avoid adjectives like "hot" or "sexy."
- It also helps to discuss your likes and dislikes with her before you kiss.
- Most girls like soft close-mouth kisses, but some may not. So start with a close-mouth kiss, but don't move on to a passionate kiss. Let the girl do that if she wants to. If she didn't, you don't either, even if you want to. Let the girl be comfortable with kissing you! Any way, if it's your first date, you should give her a soft, gentle close-mouth kiss.
- If you feel like she's into you, try kissing her! But make everything go soft and slow. Remember that girls are sensitive, and hate it when you rush things. So lean in towards her a bit. If she leans towards you, or comes closer, or just smiles at you, then go for it!
- Read her hints. If she really wants to kiss you, the most likely things that she will do are peck your cheek, hug you, try to be as close as possible to you, flirt by tucking her hair behind her ear, or say that you have brought her to a beautiful and romantic place. Try to understand what she thinks through her body language!
- You could try giving her candy or flowers or a stuffed teddy bear as a gift on your date. You could also give her a pretty necklace. It's not a good idea to give her a ring as a gift!
- If you didn't kiss during the date, try to give her a short goodbye kiss if you are dropping her home.
- If she acts flirty with you after the date, you can too, but don't go too far! Alternately, you could just not flirt.
- You can use this trick that makes her think of you: Call and ask her how she is. Do this for two or three days and then don't do it for two days. Then she might wonder why you haven't called and will therefore, think of you.
- Some guys who are really confident and good at singing sing to their crush over the phone!
- If you have come really close to her, and she seems OK about it, lean in and kiss her. Go in 90% and let her come 10%. If she doesn't, then you go 100%!
- Break the touch barrier! Hug her, stroke her, make excuses to touch her, but don't overdo it!
- Always try to make her happy when she is sad.
Warnings
- Make sure your breath smells good.
- Look clean on your date, and don't stink!
- Don't try to rush things!
- Remember that looks aren't everything! A girl might at first not like how you look, but once you spend time with her, she might start liking you because of your personality.
- Remember to be yourself! If you act like you're yourself, the girl might fall for who you are to be, not for who you pretend to be!
- Make her feel comfortable with you!
- Respect her boundaries at all times.
- Don't be too mushy. Avoid saying "I love you from behind" or "you're beautiful" every two seconds, as it will annoy her.
- If she pushes you away when you lean to kiss her, stop!
- Be certain that she's the one that you want. Make sure you don't want her just because she's popular, rich, pretty, etc.
- Don't stare at her like an idiot. She'd not only think you're weird, but also feel uncomfortable with you.
- Make sure you don't have anything stuck in your teeth or braces.
- Don't force her to kiss you!
- Never try to make her the object of a joke!
- Never ask her for sex at any point!
- If she has tied her hair, don't run your hands through it! You might spoil her hair do! Some girls don't like people touching their hair at all, so be careful!
- Girls generally love it when guys show off in front of them! But don't be too cocky or get over-certain of yourself and look like a jerk.
- Don't make her think you are a guy who just wants her in bed. Ever!
- If you're trying to make her jealous, DO let her think you like her!
- Don't give up! If you didn't succeed on your first date, try again!
- Don't talk about sex with her!
