Deal With Your Crush Liking Your Friend Instead of You

Is your best friend dating the guy/girl you like? Is it bothering you? If so, read this article! It tells you all about how to deal with your crush liking your friend instead of you.

Steps

  1. Just deal with the fact that he/she likes him/her. If they really do like/love each other, do NOT, at all costs, flirt with your crush. This will just make the situation worse, and you could lose your best friend.
  2. Find out what he/she doesn't like about you. Is it your personal hygiene? Your tendency to talk too much? Once you find out what it is, slightly change it. They find you smell funky? Shower more often, or use deodorant or perfume. If it's something like your looks, teeth or personality that you and other people like you can't change that and should probably let that person fly.
  3. Talk to your friend. Just talk to them about it. Tell your friend how you feel about your crush. If they already knew, that wasn't a nice move.
  4. Wait a month, then see if they break up. If it's been a month or more of them dating, they really do like each other, so it's time to move on.
  5. Move on. Moving on from someone you really liked is extremely hard. Don't worry though, you will definitely find someone!



Tips

  • Talk to someone other than your friend about your feelings. Got a trustworthy sibling? Parent? Neighbor? Just explain everything to them.
  • If they are very, VERY close, then just try to find someone else.
  • If your friend and crush have been very distant lately, this is your chance! Flirt with him/her!
  • Try to keep him out of your mind and if he stays out of your mind for awhile then you don't like him to much and you can get over him quickly.
  • Just know that if you're crush doesn't want you in his life and likes you're friend , go with it. It's his/her choices of who to love. And anyway there's a lot of people out there. You still have a chance.

Warnings

  • Do not ask your crush out while they are still dating!! That is an extremely risky move!
  • Try not to ruin your friendship!
  • Don't hang out with your crush more than your friend.
  • DO NOT try to ruin the relationship your friend and your crush have!It'll just decrease the chance of ANYONE asking you out.
  • Try to move on.

Things You'll Need

  • A healthy mind.
  • A nice SMILE!

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