Treat a Girl You Love

There are things girls these days need to hear and things guys need to do, at least if you love them. Most of the worthwhile girls in today's society do not think they are beautiful. And that's the part when you come in, and prove it to her. She may not believe you, but that's her opinion, and she will love you for the sweet talk!

Steps

  1. Tell her she is beautiful. Most girls prefer this over "hot," "fine," or "sexy." Although she may not agree with your compliment, she will be happy for being sweet!
  2. Hold her hand, even if it's just for a second. Holding hands is a sign of trust, and she will feel closer to you.
  3. Kiss her on the forehead. Softly, and just a quick peck. It will make her feel loved and cared like a princess, and safe with you.
  4. Leave her a sweet voicemail or text messages to wake up to. It feels very loving to wake up to a sweet voice or message. This is a great start to brighten up her day!
  5. Always tell her how much you love her. It will comfort and relax her, to know there is someone that loves her deeply.
  6. When she is upset, hold her tight. Tell her that you are there for her and how much she means to you. Kiss her and comfort her.
  7. Recognize the small things. If she likes hugs, give her hugs. If she likes a certain thing (perfume, clothing, cell phone, etc.), maybe you can consider buying one for her on a special occasion, such as her birthday. She will notice that you had paid attention, and will be gratified.
  8. Introduce her to family and friends as your girlfriend. Have her meet and get to know your family.
  9. Play with her hair. If she reacts uncomfortable, then break that ice with a joke or flirty comment about her hair. Don't mess up her hair though.
  10. Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her. This is playful and will bring in some laughter. If she seems or feels uncomfortable though, don't do it anymore.
  11. Sit and just talk to her. Have a conversation together. Bring up some jokes and make her happy.
  12. When you miss her, let her know. She will feel happy that someone cares about her.
  13. Let her rest in your arms. This is a really warm and tender way to show your care for her.
  14. If she's mad at you, comfort her. You can apologize, and hug her. Show her you are sorry.
  15. Give her piggyback rides. Playful and fun!
  16. Bring her flowers for no reason. Add a love poem written by your self.
  17. Look her in the eyes and smile.
  18. Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
  19. Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.
  20. Kiss her in the rain.
  21. If you're in love with her, tell her.
  22. Tell her she is unique. And like no other girl you have ever met.

Tips

  • Protect her.
  • Never lie to her.
  • Tell her all about your secrets and problems. This way she will notice that you are Yourself around her.
  • Laugh at her jokes. Even if they are not funny.
  • Remember if she does not show any interest in your affection, then just hold back.
  • Give her more time than anyone else.
  • If she does not love you. Its not the end of the world! Remember there are hundreds of beautiful women in the world.
  • Pretend to be happy with her even when she offends you.
  • Show a lot of interest in her, and put her before everyone else!

Warnings

  • Watch for her intimidation, e.g. Body language is a yawn and she is slouching away from you.
  • Treat her friends and her loved ones with respect and try to build relationships with them. If you do not then they might not trust you!
  • If you do not mean what you say, do not' say it! No one likes being lied to.
  • Don't be a suck up. Use your inner man.

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