Get Guys to Like You for Your Personality and Not Your Looks
Guys can be strange creatures sometimes. Although we're sure that your personality and body are both wonderful and worthy of attention, in the long run you'll be better off with a guy who loves your inside more than your outside. Here we offer tips on how to downplay your looks and allow your amazing personality to shine through. Good luck, girlfriend!
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Steps
- If a guy seems to pay more attention to your body than to you then perhaps you are sending the wrong signals. Dress Modestly and Attractively (Girls)
- Consider that some guys that are good quality might be the nerdiest or ugliest guys in the school. But we want personality, right? Don't be afraid to date them.
- Give people a chance. Show them you're not easy, and if you do get a guy, don't be easy with him because he could tell a buddy when he's done with you and BAM! You're being used.
- To play tricks on them, mix it up sometimes and wear an ugly, outdated outfit. See if they like you now. If they don't, you may need to end that relationship.
- Act normal around people. Guys that aren't attracted to your body, or at least don't appear to be, may be your best choice. They will get to know you and treat you like a friend. Then later on they may fall for you.
- Be yourself and don't dress sexy. Guys like girls who smile and laugh. They like girls who are willing to listen to them when they're not feeling well.
- Don't buy tight shirts or low cut tops just for a guy. If this is your style, that's okay, but respect yourself!
- Be smart! Guys like girls who are not bimbos (always acting sexy and less smart).
- Be confident, smile, and most of all, be happy.
- Never change yourself for a guy. If he doesn't like you for you, he's not worth your time.
- Don't let a guy tell you what you can and can't be. Be independent and always be yourself!
- Don't ever let a guy tell you you're ugly or that you can't live without him. If he has said this, he is not worth it! And you can live without him — he's too self-involved if he has said this!
- Never rely on friends to find out if the guy likes you. Getting them to ask him will just make him think you are a coward.
Tips
- If you want to minimize your chest size or bum, find clothes that make it look smaller. In some fashion magazines they have ways to minimize or maximize things or you may want to search the Internet for ideas.
Warnings
- Don't be obsessed with your looks, you are special just the way you are!
