Get Inside a Girl's Head
For a man, getting inside a woman's head is probably next to impossible. It's the same for women trying to get into a man's head. But as with everything, there are tricks and tips. Listening to her is a start and body language usually portrays someones inner feelings and thoughts, so, if you really want to attempt to understand a woman..Read on.
Steps
- Get to know her. Whether you're trying to start a relationship or just a friendship. Casually chat with her at school, work etc. Listen to her and learn about her likes, dislikes. What she dreams of being or who she dreams of meeting. Tell her about you as well. Women get frustrated when guys want to know about us but never reveal anything about themselves. If she's indulging her history and her life to you, she'll expect the same in return.
- Watch her. Not in a creepy stalker way, please. Just pay attention to how she does little things. Don't completely ignore her when you're not in conversation. Maybe she likes to bite her nails a lot, likes to twist her hair around her fingers or doesn't like her fringe in her face etc. You might think these preconceptions are worthless to know but if you think about it, you kinda are getting inside her head.
- Her body language. Its the same for male and female by the way. Usually outgoing people or very confident personalities will always wear bright colors or bold designs. They will often be seen as the leader of any group or party and stands straight and tall, emitting powerful vibes. Shy girls might wear dull tones and will easily let others interrupt or overpower them in conversations. They might slouch and prefer to leave their hair down to use as a curtain around their face. Laid back girls might make no effort to look best and outshine others or to blend in. They will feel perfectly fine in their skin and will chat and talk to anyone. They are calm and easy going.
- If you are already in a relationship or commitment with her, these same rules apply.
- If you are trying to get into a relationship, you should see other articles about trying to get a girls attention or ask about a commitment.
Tips
- Don't become uncomfortable or stalker-like. Always be casual and honest.
- Be a gentleman.
- Treat all women with respect.
