Politely Say No to a Boy Who Asks You Out
This article will show you how to politely say no to a guy that asks you out. Once you see all the signs and you have an issue with a relationship, you may need to check this out!
Steps
- The signs make you feel special, but you can't get distracted. Prepare to give the boy a good solid answer. He is going to smile at you and maybe even wink. He might casually follow you. A friend might be cheering him on pushing him towards you, whispering in his ear. Try to eavesdrop on them, maybe get a friend to eavesdrop on them for you.
- He becomes very shy and hesitates when you talk to him. If he is a loser he might act cooler than he normally acts. If he is ugly he'll try to dress nicely. Don't let him lure you in!
- The course will go from cool to shy. It'll take him about a week to suck up the guts. He may indirectly ask you out," Want to get some pizza?" or," Want to hang out later?" Some guys dive head first into it and say," Want to go out?"
- If he asks you out indirectly, you could go with him to pizza or wherever he wants to take you to be nice. You could also use the excuse," I'm busy." If he asks directly you could say," I'm not ready for a relationship," or," I need to get to know you better." List some of the reasons why. Don't answer right when he asks you out. Just suggest a walk after school or after work.
- On the walk, list the reasons you can't go out with him. Tell him that you should just be friends and say," Maybe you could ask in a few years."
- If the guy goes further after you say," No." You need to firmly say," I'm sorry. I can't go out with you right now."
Tips
- Be nice.
- Stay calm and collected.
- Try not to hurt his feelings.
- Tell him you could be friends.
- Smile at him.
Warnings
- Don't be too harsh, guys have feelings too.
- Don't let him touch you or talk you into having sex.
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